girls: will you dump him?

My first question would be: "Has he been always like that ever since?" If the answer is "yes" then you don't have a choice, you cannot change him or force him to do something he's not accustomed to overnight. If you loved him for being that way then it's up to you to decide if you'd like to continue or not. However, if it has just been recently that he only does 10words per 2hours then I'd say it's baloney! It's a poor excuse to hint to me that he doesn't want to talk or try to talk to me. He's just leading you on and you have better run to the hills than to be stuck with a person like that. Just take it easy and don't think too much. If you truly feel that he makes you happy (for whatever reason you might have or have created to do so) then go for it. Just don't expect for change soon. I remember my friend who has always complained about her boyfriend. She earns more than him and has a car. She drives him to his job and most of the times pays for their outings. It's not that he's taking advantage of her, but simply she has more achievements and education compared to him. The relationship has been going on for a while now and they even have plans of getting married. Then suddenly she came running to me complaining that things are not how she wants it to be. She want him to strive harder to have more income and such. Then after a while, she can't take it any longer and they decided to go on separate ways. A few months after, I just heard from her that they're back together and that she begged him to be with her again and has accepted him for who he is and can't live life without him. Now, that action just made her lose her right to complain about his underachievement and she can no longer complain about her paying for things and such. You see, there are always two sides of a coin. We do need to decide, but once we do decide, we must be sure that we're not in it for comfort only. Just for the thought that you have a boyfriend or are in a relationship. You must think that this guy would never change and if you can still accept him that way, then go for it. Otherwise, save yourself the trouble and just let him be. Good luck!

Is he an anti social individual or is he avoiding to speak because he is hiding some thing? Say he refuses to talk and converse because he does not want things be spilled out? Is he the same person with others, say to his work mates or friends? If he is not, then some thing is wrong to him my friend. I cannot really make a comment on this because the situation is quite confusing.

well i say if you love him and hes good to you and he has no problems with you being social. no problem. be happy with him and just explain to people that hes a bit shy. i had one like that for almost 4 yrs. it worked fine. then for some reason, he came out of it. started being to social and ended up with another girlfriend on the side so, i broke with him. i guess i brought him out of his shell to well.

Well I would always love being with someone who actually talks. But only 10 words per 2 hours, what if he says a very wrong thing that hurts you and the 10 words finished? hahahahaha...then he have to wait for another 2 hours to apologize but will that 10 words enough for him to explain? I would respect his decision but at the same time will think that, that is just pure selfish you know, then he should live by himself. honestly this is making me laugh lol....but I have to be honest here, ok let me put my opinion like this, if he knows how to use the opportunity of only being able to use 10 words per 2 hours only, lets say, he can use that to be funny, or romantic...then I may will put up with him if I really love him with all my heart. But if he use those 10 words per 2 hours just to mourn and complain, then yes, I will dump him :D because what if I was dying with a pain or something, maybe I got involve in an accident (at the time which he cannot talk because those 10 words already been used and the 2 hours hasn't over yet), then he will be a pure useless b*st*rd in this one lol :DDDD