did you ever cheat on your bf/gf? O_O

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Portugal
October 4, 2010 9:50am CST
hi guys^^ did you ever cheat on your bf/gf? about me i didnt be with other guy at same time that was with my bfs. never did that and wont do. if i ever loved someone else i would tell my bf the truth. i know how much he loves me and how heartbroken he would be if i did that. also i wouldnt have courage for that^^ i think that we must always be honest and dont cheat^^ anyway i wont judge people that did that bcs we never know our future ^^ did you guys did that before? i wish not^^ please share your stories^^
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@aeisle (377)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
Nope and don't have the plan to do it. I believe people don't even have the reason to cheat on their bf/gf. It's because because by doing so, that person just don't know how to get satisfied. If you love a person other than your partner, you should tell your partner first and properly close your relationship before entering a new one. Having them on the same time means you don't love anyone of them. It's just an act of greediness and want them all attitude. If your really love your partner, I think just by thinking how she would feel or the pain that you will give after knowing that you cheated on her was already enough reason not to cheat. But if you have a reason to cheat like, "I love her too" or "I can't fight my feelings". I can only say that that was not love at all but probably lust. The feelings that you say would only be an urge that you felt after being attracted by the other person's beauty or mostly hotness. I have already seen how a woman felt after being cheated and I have been cheated too. Because of that, I don't want my see my partner or make her feel the pain that I've seen and felt. This is why I already told myself, "I will never have the reason to cheat but I will have all the reasons not to cheat". -)
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• Philippines
5 Oct 10
hmhm actually yes i am , ,,when i have a bf i had also 3 bf;s from other place but the most i love is the real one,.then until now he didn't know yet,..,,
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• Philippines
6 Oct 10
you don't really love that boy then...
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
I wonder how you would feel if you discovered he had 3 other gf's too?
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
I would never having been cheated on. I know how hurtful it feels to be betrayed and I never want to be part of anything related to cheating.
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
4 Oct 10
Well, it's not that we are together for that long ( 1year 3 months), so I don't know if you can also put my relationship with my girlfriend in this topic^^ For me honesty is the key, and if there is something to be spoken about, than it needs to happen. If we can't even trust our partners anymore, there definetly is something wrong. However some people say they don't mind that their partner also goes around with others(if you know what I mean), I couldn't stand the thought myself though.
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• Portugal
5 Oct 10
aw sure is a long relationship already^^ im happy that you are honest with her and never cheated on her^^ anyway yes i understand when you say that some people can have other people too like in an open relationship right?^^ i also couldnt stand that. see other girls kissing my bf i would just end all with him. for me thats not good to be with many boys if i have a bf and the same to my bf^^
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• India
4 Oct 10
well I would say yes and I would say no also because you remember that apartment stuff I have not told that to my girlfriend so it is some kind of a cheating that didn't tell her everything but I was not comfortable to say it and now I am too scared to tell..
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• India
6 Oct 10
well I didn't do anything like that with her we were just good friends and we shared our apartment that's it but I am scared to tell my girlfriend because if she takes me in a wrong manner then so I didn't tell her anything..
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• United States
5 Oct 10
yes but she had said we were over the day before, and i was a bit sad and my friend was just making me feel better, the next day, my ex was acting like nothing had happened and she never said it was over. but her fault
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