many people think is impossible to fall in love online.do you?^^

I was not a believer in this idea of falling in love online. I have always thought that these kinds of relationship would never work. But I was proven wrong. I had a classmate in college who met a guy online. They were boyfriend and girlfriend for about a year. We told her that it was most likely a fraud. The guy was good looking, and, well, she didn't really have a lot to boast about. But then the guy was so loyal and sweet. Even though they lived oceans apart, the guy found a way to send her a cake during their anniversary. About a month after that, the guy and his mother came all the way from New York to the Philippines. Believe it or not, the guy was half-British and half-Cuban who was the same age as we were. He and his mom stayed in the hotel near the my classmates' place. She went with them around the country even when we were busy completing our requirements for graduation. She didn't care because she was so in love. The guy walked her to the hospital and we saw that he really loved her. We graduated on April, a month after that, we heard news that our classmate was missing. We made jokes that she probably was kidnapped or something. Those were mean jokes but still. Anyway, her mom was calling her close friends asking them if they have heard from our classmate but they haven't. She had deleted her facebook account and was never online on Yahoo. We were baffled. Her family went crazy looking for her, fearing for the worst. Months after that, we received news about her. We found out that she got married to the same guy she met online. She never told her family that she went to New York because she knew they were against the relationship she had with the guy. Her family were doubting the guy's motives. She still hasn't come back to the Philippines. She's happy, I guess. The guy and his mom love her and are taking good care of her. The guy is well-off, my classmate is from a well-off family as well. I never believed that this would happen before. But now I do.

It's risky, but sometimes it is worth it. Here's my story: When i was 11 (Not a typo, I was eleven years old!), I met this guy in an AOL chat room. He was an online tutor, so to speak; he helped me with my science homework. Well, late April of this year we started being more affectionate. After six years of talking to him online and via phone, I decided to go to Memphis to see him and his family for my 18th birthday. I understand that this could have been the riskiest thing I had ever done; however, I wasn't afraid. I figured I knew him well enough that he was exactly who he said he was. I was right! ^^ I stayed at his mom's apartment for two weeks, came home (leaving him was very hard, and I spent most of the ride home crying), and I am currently 13 weeks pregnant with his kid. We are saving up money like crazy so that I can move down there and live with him. That's actually why I'm on MyLot - to get the extra money I need in order to be with him again. :)

yes your right.... its impossible to love other ways..... but only i dont believe that you will throughly inlove person through online.. will i dont know....

I found my girlfriend online and we have 1 year and 7 months. She is a teacher and incredible woman and mother and I admire her for that!! Love you sweety!!!until we get older without tee :)

Yes, you don't know all about this person you are talking to. Maybe if you talk via video and so you get a better idea of them even if you haven't met them, then it's possible that you'll fall for them. But just writing I don't think it's possible at all and I have some experience.

Meeting in person should give out the highest amount of success

Well I hope things work out for you. Its hard when you fall in love and it doesnt work out. I dont know how an internet relationship will work but I hope it develops into true love for you both. Meeting in person is definitly a must though! I almost fell for someone on line because he was so kind to me but I woke up and realized like this is weird and ended it. He only lived like ten miles from me and I had met him before though so I dont think its the same thing you are talking about.

Wow why do you only have a 7 in your star? I always enjoy your posts and leave you positive ratings just as I did with this discussion you started :) I just happened to notice you write ^ that instead of using a space. Does your space bar not work? I am just curious.

People can fall in love anywhere. It is just as possible to fall in love on line as anywhere else. The relationship is what you make of it.

i think it would be possible,since i have read some stories here in your discussion. though,sometimes i know it depends on both parties to realize what really are intentions some may get there. for me,i think i can be close to some mylotters here who i haven't known personally,though i am still taking careof my wordings here sometimes. if you really feel they loved you,or you loved each other,time will come that you'll prove that to each other someday... just be careful with some people you meet on the net cause not all of them have good intentions... i have read that your boyfriend is a filipino? and you are going to meet himnext year? well,that's great! most filipino men are romantic and sincere,though i don't know all of them are such. you still have to know yourself and find out when you meet. goodluck on that!

Well Love errputs in you when some body strikes your mind and attracts you. some times its physical beauty of the person and some times its intellectual beauty.Some times its money and sometimes its style.So On net u can strike any bodys mind directly and can get love easily for instance. have a a nice day

online many people lie about many things. People say that true love can't be found on the internet. To me that is wrong. You can get genuine people on there. If you met a stranger in a pub and you were attracted to one another the only difference there is the fact that you have seen what they look like. Compared to over the internet even with a picture there it still may not be them. Yet a stranger in a pub could lie about many things, just as you can online, it comes down to if you feel you can trust that person online, if you are both eager to meet then do it in a public place, that way if any of you lied about anything it is easy to walk away, not everyone out there online are bad people. Im looking for the right woman, whether online or in person while out and about. I just want honesty. You don't always get that online, or in person so what is the difference between the 2? Not much really

I don't think so because you're falling for an 'image'...online, you can be whatever and whoever you want to be...the best love is 'known' love... My strategy for entering a meaningful relationship is to be that person's friend...how can I love someone I can't see or interact with? I mean, we can email each other all day long, but what about dates? Get together's? Who are they? What and how are their parents? These are things that I feel are critical in a relationship, and quite frankly, emails, blogs, etc. aren't enough... Are you in love? Or are you in love with the idea of being in love? I have to admit, it is a cool feeling! I've been married for 17+ years and I still feel the same way I met my wife in high school!!

nope the person i love more than anyone i feel in love with her over the phone thought it took a long time of talking for hours everyday. lol we only called each other to fight at first and then we ran out of things fight about and we kept talking we got use to each other and just didn't stop lol. its not like that now though but we love each other more than ever even though we don't have time to talk much

I absolutely believe it is possible to fall in love online as I did so myself. The major problem, though, is that it is an extremely fragile situation. Love in and of itself is highly fallible and new love can often be very hard to distinguish from infatuation. Adding the element of the internet as the primary medium of communication only makes the whole thing that much more uncertain. While I do not agree that people online are inherently untrustworthy, I do know that understanding the full scope of someone's personality through text and conversation alone is very, very difficult. Oftentimes, things that sound very appealing in theory may end up being very strange or annoying in reality. Or little personality quirks or habits that are completely unforeseeable through conversation alone could be intolerable. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they're impossible or even uncommon, just infinitely more tricky and difficult. Like I said, I myself fell in love online. I came across his profile entirely by accident one night and fell completely in love that very instant. We've been together 7 years now and we've been married over 2 years.

Yes i believe you that love can fee and see in every way not only by means of touch but by all means. Like falling inlove through internet it happen and i have a proof because my friends got her husband bec of net. They begin as chatmate and later they develop and feel in love then later they found out the same way and at he end they got married. Now they have kids and still happy and much in love. Love can prove in any way not only by personal but on how the two person carry their life and how they understand the two way on the other line. As I know heart speaks and works within the two person who are inlove and they have the way to fulfill it. Have a happy day!

I am disagreeing with this that it is impossible to fall in love with someone online. I think there are many people who are fall in love with a boy/girl by internet. I have also one of my friends who have a girlfriend which he meets to her online. And now both are going for marrying. So I think it is not impossible but if you really make trust in your relationship and always tell everything true to your partner. Then you can get someone special by online. So I always believed that if there is trust between both persons then they can make their relationship strong's.

It's definitely possible. Love happens in different places, times, to different people, etc. I think the real question is if love that is born from an online relationship will last. I'm sure it's a lot harder to maintain. First of all, when you meet someone online, it's harder to figure out what type of person he or she is cause you can't see him or her face to face. It's very easy to pretend as someone you're not when you're online, after all. Because of those factors, it's hard to build trust, and trust is one of the most important foundations in a relationship. However, I've seen it happen. I've seen relationships that started out as online relationship last. It just depends on the party involved ^_^

Ha ha,the topic is so interesting for me. I want to share my experience with you.I felt in love with a man online in the winter of 2005. And now, the man is my husband and our son is 16 months old.So I must say that,everything is possible.

We fall in love online.it happened with me once.people say that you cant fall in love without meeting the person.but you know one thing,love is blid.and love happens anytime,anywhere and with anyone.i saw people fall in love at the first sight.i used to think its just a stupid attraction but then i realized that its love.because attraction remains for only some time but love remains for long long time. And i observed long distance relationships are sometimes very strong. so let people say that you cant fall in love online.but people like you and me know that it does happen.Am i Right?