do you get bored talking on phone with your partner?

The thing is, if you do that same thing over and over again, you'll probably get bored. I'm not talking about relationships specifically. It can be anything that you do in life. I suggest you spice up the routine.

hye yknow what.. we mature... as well as our relationships... talking on the phone???? well its kinda teenager type. but i think talking is for the gettng to knkow part.. so just dont mind it. eheheh heres an advice, a relationship needs spice. how about making cute txt messages. little notes... whatever u can think of.

It's just cause you see each other too often that you already know what's going on in each other's life that there's not much to talk about. The same thing happens to me and my boyfriend, though it's usually him getting bored XD I used to get really hurt, even worried about our relationship when that happens, but then I realized that it really is because we're always together that when we get on the phone, there isn't much to talk about. He already knows what's going on in my life, and I know what's going on about his so if we run out of things to talk about we either try to come up with new topics (this is usually successful for us) or we put the phone down, do other stuff then when we miss each other, we talk again :p They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I agree.

Are you too often talking on the phone? try your best to speak with a direct way to meet, with you meet you will get a lot of things to talk about. I never experienced anything like that, but after I met in person, we have so many things that we will discuss, and after we often meet when we talk on the phone we will find many things to talk about.

no never i've talked for 5 hours straight before i guess its cause we talk about every thing not just our life with each other but the movies we watch and everything. it makes it interesting and fun.

hi chanchal, it's good to get to know you. Can I join you in discussing this? I think what you both experience now is something usual. it happens to any other relationship. do you run a long distance or not? whatever you can find other ways to enjoy your relationship, I think. You just need a break to find something different. this is a test of my first visit to mylot. have fun.

I had that problem with an ex-boyfriend once too. We loved each other very much and talked every day almost whenever we were awake and eventually just ran out of things to talk about. I would say it's normal for two people who talk a lot together to eventually run out of topics to discuss. I would also then suggest that you two go out and do something new that neither of you have tried before to start new conversation topics, maybe have something fun that you both enjoy doing together so that you're not bored in each other's company.

Me and my bf don't really like talking on the phone. But when we were in a process of just getting to know each other at the first few months of our relationship, yes we talked a lot on the phone and we got bored so easily. So we decided to to use skype instead and use a free video calling which was so much better. We can play games on skype while talking and we didn't get bored as much as we did with the phone talking. As for your problem, my relationship is entering the 6th year, and we had gone through of what you are going through at the moment. so don't worry, it is very normal, you noticed it yourself don't you, which is running out of topic. When you have run out of topic, that is a sign to stop talking on the phone for that moment because if not, then that will lead you both to being bored of each other actually, and any of you may will start a random topic that will end of you both disagreeing about the argue after that. Hope this is helping a bit. Have a nice day!

That has happened to me before. My bf was so desperate to the extend of writing down the topics to talk about. In the end, it makes our conversation sound so awkward and unnatural. This is bound to happen when bf and gf and seeing each other too often. By doing that, we don't have any private moments to ourselves, we don't hang out with friends as often. With all that, topics between us are bound to lessen due to lesser exposure. U should take a break from chatting with him for a few days, that should improve things.

Goood lord, you have managed to maintain your relationship even after talking everyday :D. I must congratulate you for that :). Yeah Initially its fun and exciting to talk often on the phone for long hours when the affair is new. I Used to talk for long hours initially in the first year, but after then I started feeling irritated to talk everyday over the same things. Its okiee if you talk for 5-10 minutes everyday even I would be able to take that, but sometimes its just not tolerable depending on the mood. Its better to talk lesss on phone if you want to maintain your relationship as one fine day one of you would be out of topics and the other will start complaining then it leads to quarrels over petty issues and problems arise :P. you are doing very good by meeting twice or thrice a week, that is the best part to maintain the relation for long, only talking on phone feels like hell. absolutely not its not a sign that you are bored with each other, its normal don't overdo that talking stuff or you will feel drained and trapped. call only when you feel like talking, its not necessary to talk everyday and give accounts of the happenings of the whole day :D. Just continue what you are doing meeting, twice or thrice a week, spend quality time with each other if you both are happy there nothing to worry, enjoy life and give freedom and space to each other, continous talking over phone gives a feeling of being trapped. Good luck and wish you success ahead :)

Goood lord, you have managed to maintain your relationship even after talking everyday :D. I must congratulate you for that :). Yeah Initially its fun and exciting to talk often on the phone for long hours when the affair is new. I Used to talk for long hours initially in the first year, but after then I started feeling irritated to talk everyday over the same things. Its okiee if you talk for 5-10 minutes everyday even I would be able to take that, but sometimes its just not tolerable depending on the mood. Its better to talk lesss on phone if you want to maintain your relationship as one fine day one of you would be out of topics and the other will start complaining then it leads to quarrels over petty issues and problems arise :P. you are doing very good by meeting twice or thrice a week, that is the best part to maintain the relation for long, only talking on phone feels like hell. absolutely not its not a sign that you are bored with each other, its normal don't overdo that talking stuff or you will feel drained and trapped. call only when you feel like talking, its not necessary to talk everyday and give accounts of the happenings of the whole day :D. Just continue what you are doing meeting, twice or thrice a week, spend quality time with each other if you both are happy there nothing to worry, enjoy life and give freedom and space to each other, continous talking over phone gives a feeling of being trapped. Good luck and wish you success ahead :)

actually,in my part, its exciting at first when I talk to my partner in a phone, i don't feel bored of talking to her because she is especial for me.....but when I went to dumaguete in schooling for my college level we didn't anymore talk in a phone because I am very busy...but I always consider her a part of my life...

I had been in a relationship wherein we would hang out a lot but not everyday. We would text each other every night and talk. Until such a time came when I would never text him anymore or see him. It just bores the hell out of me of doing the same things all over again. Probably the love wasn't really there, just the enjoyment of hanging out.

I LOVE my husband. However I despise the phone, even with him. He's away right now and I think our longest conversation has been 20 minutes. I am just not a phone person at all. I can spend 24/7 with him every day without getting bored, but stick him on the phone and I am tired of talking very quickly. So no worries, I don't think not talking much on the phone is a sign that there is a problem! I think you're just like me- not big in to long phone conversations :D.

Hey I have no any partner. But I always talking to my many friends on phone and I ever feel bored while I talking on cell phone. But sometimes our chat going fort long times. so sometimes our balance are empty due to long talk on phone.