One opportunity to make everything right..

This sounds really snotty- because god knows I have my regrets, but I really feel like everything bad that happens helps to make me a better and stronger person. It's hard to get through the bad times, but you grow so much from it! Good luck, you're not a loser, you have just fallen on some hard times. I was unemployed myself not too long ago. Just sit down and make a game plan. You can get to where you want to be! :)

i believed everything happened for a reason. You just have to make a major decision in your life that you think is the solution to your problem.

A couple of months ago, I thought of myself the same way as you think of yourself right now. A loser. But when I think about it today, I have become better. I learned from my mistakes and I would never dream of changing the past. Sure, I have still some regrets, but I am just going to charge it to experience. That's how we will all learn. Feel sorry for yourself, but let the people around you make you feel good again. Don't do anything stupid that would make you regret even more.

Well i think were on the same boat. I am unemployed too. But don't give up hope everything will come around once you work on it. If I could change something in my past that would be changing the degree that I got when I was in college. I regretted it big time because I realize I do not like my degree. As much as I want to study again, I can't because I lack on the financial budget. So here I am stuck, but I won't give up! I now everything will turn out okay. And besides, if I am gonna be successful someday... Wouldn't this part of my life make a great story to tell? =)