After a fight with family memebers what do you do?
By aaronfyzeon
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
Philippines
October 5, 2010 1:08am CST
There is no such thing as a perfect family. There would always be an argument in all of your dealings with each one of your family members. You will not agree on everything. If there would be an argument it sometimes lead to a fight. You will always have to fight for your own principle and your point of view on something you believe in. Just like the normal thing you do outside your home.
It will come to a point that you will say bad words to your family that will make them get hurt and they will always retaliate back at you. If these things happen then I just get out of the house and time will make everything cool sometimes. Then if I am sure to myself that everything is ok then I will just come back and make amends to my family members. But things are not always the same and not always time can make everything ok. I will just have to adjust and make peace with with them. Going out of the situation does not mean I am scared to face the argument. I just do it because I am avoiding the fact that it may become worse so I go ahead and get out of the steamy fight.
How about you guys, what do you do if you had a fight with one or some of your family members?
6 responses
@raeesmanager (49)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 10
yes dear the same thing is here with me, when ever there is a chance of fight with any family member, i just walkout to my house, spend some time alone, or go to any of my school frnds for chit chat, n then come back when i feel easy,
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
5 Oct 10
myself it depends most of the time i can go along time without talking to them.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 10
quarrel or fight with family members, it is not fun because if the parents know it, both of them can be blamed and punished. Usually, after fight with one family member, I'm hurried away leave home to avoid the anger and punishment from my parents 
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 10
The first thing I usually do is go out and leave the house. Because if I stay, I won't be able to stop talking to because as you said we will always fight for our own principle and our point of view. Then when I feel calmer, I will stay far a bit longer until I'm sure it's fine enough for to go back home. We don't really then try to say sorry and amend the situation because then the next day, everything become normal again and we seem to all forget about what happened. So we take it as a very normal thing to happen as long as no one put a fight on any argument for more than a day.
@moneyspinner (613)
• Mumbai, India
5 Oct 10
Well if Its something serious matter and I am in an uncontrollable rage, I get out of the house and have a good time with friends till I feel calm and composed :). Still I have a habit of making a blown up face and sit until somebody does not come to console or give explanations :D. Sometimes we gear up for onother arguement when we want to put across a point :D.
@lynlypiochy (706)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Usually, I'd go into my room and lock the door. I would turn on my iPod and listen to blaring rock music. Other times, I'd go and displace my anger on something else, like violent games on the internet. If that doesn't work, I compose an angry song and forget about it. My last resort is to leave the house with them not knowing it.
