If your bf/gf slaps you in the face,will you forgive him/her?

Oh no, never. Abusive action shouldn't be used in any arguments at all. Especially if he is only my bf, means he doesn't even have his right to slap me. If he slap me once or twice when he is only a bf, what do you think he is going to do in marriage if I ever marry him. I will stay away from him right away, I don't like man who hits their girlfriend, that irk me so much. No matter how much I love him, but once he does that kind of thing, it makes my love for him less and my respect maybe also gone. The reason why I want to have a bf is not because so someone will slap me when argument happens.

If my husband hit me, I would get him arrested, and I would move far away so he couldnt find me... I have dealt with domestic violence in the past and its not nice, it really messes you up nd I could not and would not put up with it again...

I can live with a quarrel and maybe a fight now and then, sweetie. But if he dare lift his hand towards me, i'll kill him. No man has the right to lift his hands towards a women and no women has the right to do that to a man. There is no excuse for anyone to do that. And as for forgiving and moving on. NO WAY EVER. TATA.

i wouldnt be with him anymore^^ you know why jie? bcs is a big disrespect to hit someone. no matter how angry you are you must not hit the person. if both are angry they can yell and be sad with each other and cry thats very normal^^ and means they care for each other^^ a relationship without arguements is not a good relationship. but if someone hits you can do that again. so if a boy slap my face and said sorry instantly maybe i could forgive but if hits me so much i wouldnt. i would leave him right away. a guy that beats so much in his gf is bcs doesnt love her at all. all relationships need care and love to keep going^^ and a boy that hits his gf doesnt love her^^ and the same goes for girls. if a girl slap her bf once and they they make things up is ok. but hit him too much thats too bad and she doesnt love him either. thats not love so you better leave someone like that and find one that cares and loves you really^^

Hi! If your bf/gf slaps you on your face while not married, how much more when your married? While a couple can have a misunderstanding, physical contact is really a big no-no for me. Perhaps, it is time to rethink the relationship and what one likes a relationship to be now and in the future.

I will never forgive my boyfriend if he ever slaps me with because of just a simple argument. He has no right to hurt me like that and even my parents didn't even dare slap me in the face so what makes him different? And if I ever forgave him, who's to say that he won't do it again? So no, I think once is enough.

Absolutely not! Unless they get serious help the next day. If they did it once, they will do it again from what I've seen. Even if they won't it'll be in the back of my mind and I'll fear it happening again. You hit and we are SO OVER!!

If I made a mistake, I will not be angry. But if I did not make a mistake, I give this a chance if the first blow.

As you said tolerate..so, even if she/he slap you and for the sake of love. You must be forgive her or him...

Nobody has the right to slap their significant other in the face. Nobdy deserves that treatment. It may be a difficult thing to do, but i would forgive the other person for it. We all make mistakes. if we can't forgive, where is our heart?

i am single right now but if i have a boyfreind there is now way or reason for him to slap me in my face,and if he ever dare to do that to me i will not forgive him and goodbye.logically, he is not even my husband yet,so he has no right to slap me or hurt me.even if he is already my husband like i said before i will not forgive him for slapping me in my face.i never slap him so i hope he will not too.

Well it really depends on the situation that who had made the mistake first, if i came to know that it was all my fault then i will forgive her. But if i came to know that it was her mistake then i will just break up with her

i think it's not a big deal when a girl slaps her bf BUT if a guy slaps her gf? That's a different thing! If my bf will slap me? I'll definitely dump him. He's not worthy for my love if that's the case. REMEMBER this girls: Once a guy slaps you once, he'll definitely slap you AGAIN, then again and again! Don't wait a moment if that'll happen. Find someone who's better than him. Someone who'll RESPECT you as you respect yourself. ^_^

if mine slaped me i would be a little mad but i must dersive it so oh well i would never hit her back ever

This very much depends on the reason for which you are being slapped. If you deliberately made the situation so serious that one had to slap you, then you should forgive, but if you feel, the reason was not so strong as for someone to slap you on your face, then it is NOT so easy to forgive. Besides, even if we forgive and continue to behave normal, somewhere deep inside we are hurt, and will never be the same person again though we may pretend.

I don't know. I'm not sure if it does happen, I will forgive him. Fortunately, it never happen to me. But if a boyfriend has a fight with his girlfriend and slaps her on the face, it's quite unacceptable. Domestic violence is becoming more and more serious, and I'm one hundred percent against it. Showing respect to each other is key to keep a good relationship. If they don't, there is no need to go on. So, if it happens, I will feel so heart broken and I guess I cannot have the faith and courage to keep the relationship with him. Once a violence, there is always be.

i think it`s not good for build relation...i think i never forgive her if she do it to me and the woman(in my mind) never forgive me if i slaps her face.. in relation needs trust, respect and tolerate each other.. do slaps is means we dont respect her again or she doesnt respect me .. so it`s useless build relation if no tolerance and respect

I have not been in this situation so cannot say what exactly I could have done and now I am married so there is no chance of having a girl friend. I am sure it should not be there in future. It's natural to have misunderstanding but getting physical is not good to hurt other person. I would never prefer to slap anyone for any reason unless I am not being attacked by the other one.

no. I will not forgive him anymore and right there and then, I will break up with him. If he is already hurting me when we are not even married.. what more if we are? he can already kill me by then!

being upset in a relationship is normal but slapping somebody in the face especially to woman is not tolerable. whatever the problem should not be end in slapping woman in the face. respect others if you want to be respected..