If you have a chance to have a baby
By michell0110
@michell0110 (167)
China
8 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
One of my big dream in my life is to have children with someone I love, be a mother, do the responsibilities, and cherish the family....then that will complete my dream, and I will live my life with family after that, keep working, work hard and be a good and respectable mother and grow old with my husband and children around me. It probably not a nice idea to some people, and I'm working toward and going forward to achieve what I want in life. But yeah, even some people get married but they don't get a chance to have a baby, because of few problems and because the lack of financial too.
If I really will have a chance to have a baby then I'd like to have three. 2 boys and a girl....I dunno why, It is just a wish, but whatever happen, let it happen. I will accept any with all my heart, rather than not having a chance to have a baby at all.
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
From your comment ,i could see you wish in your planing of family,it's quite sincere, ican feel it.
2 boys can protect the girls and the whole family, good idea..
Wish you good luck and has a nice family..
@MTElemiaC (65)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
if I'm having a chAnce tO have A baBy. I am gOing tO take gOod care Of my baBy and lOve her/him as I can. I'm very thankfUl if I am gOing tO have a baBy. I want tO have a 2 baBies a girl and a bOy. It's nice tO imagine, tO be fair tO me,.
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
yep.. one boy and girl are perfect mix..my mother me and my brother ,uhh..out of imagination,we always quarral,and even fight against each other , but i think it's just an exception ..
your two babies will be very harmonious..Good luck to you..
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
HI,
I will only opt for 1 child and it is more than
enough for me. I am glad that
currently I have one little boy with me and he is
my precious son.
It is hard to choose for baby gender and only GOD will
determine for us.
Be it,boy or girl , is the same and some people even
say, girl is better, will get closer to her family in future.
But for typical chinese family, especially old folks,they like
to have a baby boy ,especially when come to the first grandchild,
for them, a baby boy is very good for the family, will run down to their
next generation.
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
yep.. boy may sometime better than girl, he can protect the family,
and one kid is more easy to handle than two or more..
but will he become lonely as a sinle child ?
because of it ,my mother want me to raise two , one of them must a boy to be the descendant of the boy's family..
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
6 Oct 10
Previously, before having children, I really hope to have a boy but it turns out, God gave three daughters. Disappointed? bit, but I believe, God has its own purpose why I was not given a boy.
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
yep..
God may has its purpose to give u 3 girls
In some extend,it's not bad to have girls,girls maybe more filial than boy,they love parents more than boys.
@thirdylopez (171)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
1 boy.... I used to like to have a girl but when girls grow up they might give me headaches...
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
Uhh..
boy is also ok
but why the girl give you headaches when she grow up?
@nereidiane024 (292)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
having a child or children is that not easy. there were factors that must be considered. first and foremost, are you ready to handle the responsibility of parenthood, emotional, physical, spiritual and financial. but if its just for imagination, i want everything in its proper and right place. and to have a child or children i want to have three loving and beautiful children. the first and last children are males, the second one is my princess. i also want to be the coolest mom to them. i will give everything they needed and teach them how to give respect and love others. :)
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
Yep..just a imagination,
but i could tell you that once i plan to have a child , of course i'm ready to burden all that things you have just mentioned about.
the discussion is also want you to make everything in its right and proper place,it may also different from the reality ^.^
Wish you have a harmonious family..
@johney264 (544)
• China
6 Oct 10
I want know how old are you. as a mother is a hard work. you are so young better don't think to be a mother. If your baby cry every day you will become tire and upset. girl may be good because boy will very monkeyish if you Particularly like to raise.I am larger than you I want two daughter in the future, because girls suit for this time. but the Fortune teller told me I must have a boy.
@michell0110 (167)
• China
6 Oct 10
i'm 20 or so..I just imaging the future.
i know have a baby is a big project for a family , but it's also a indispensable part in our life , so why don't we just be positive to accept it ?
Acutually , the two gender are both ok for me , but my mothe want me two deliver two baby ,one of them must be a boy as a descendant of the husband's family..
i just can't understand why the boy alway more important than girl,Without girl , houw can the boy deliver a baby?
