when you are sad do your bf/gf support you?^^

cute love^^ - boy and girl happy in love^^
Portugal
October 5, 2010 5:21pm CST
hi guys^^ when you are sad do your bf/gf support you?^^ about me when we were only friends my bf always supported me^^ i just love him so much^^ i dont know how i didnt love him before^^ i guess was bcs he didnt talok to me so much bcs he hated i talked with him and other boys at same time ahah^^ he is a bit jealous^^ so sometimes he didnt even came for us to talk. anyway since we are lovers we always talk everyday mostly^^ he really loves me and do all for me^^ what about you guys?^^ do your bf/gf support you when you are sad? please share^^
7 responses
• United States
6 Oct 10
ah no none of them have they always say they can't deal with it call them back when i feel better. but my best friend does when she can, i don't know how she does it sometimes listening to me complain for hours on end, but i do the same for her though she doesn't get sad much
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
sorry that none of your gfs did that for you. i guess they didnt love you enough then. im happy that your best friend hear your problems for hours^^ she cares really too muchy for you^^ is good that she doesnt get sad too much^^ is a sign that she is happy with her life^^ is good to know that you have someone you can rely on when you are sad^^
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
yes thats great that you love your best friend^^ and yes past is past and must not think about it anymore^^ you must look forward yes^^ and to your best friend^^ she loves you and thats what matters for now. a girl that really loves and can support you in good and bad moments^^ thats what love is. be there for person we love always^^ and you found the right one^^
• United States
6 Oct 10
its all good i mean i love her and my past is past and its gone so look forward and not back
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
yes ,,, i think all the time ,, even though i am not his gf any more,, \but we are always communicating to each other everyday.,.,.and dating,.,.,,.and i think he id the best bf i ever had,.,,
• Portugal
14 Oct 10
but if you still talk everyday and continue dating why arent you his gf anymore? you do things like lovers do^^ everything so why arent you together as bf and gf? doesnt make sense^^ you should talk with him and ask him what exactly he wants from you. bcs if he wants only friends is not good that you always hang out with him and soon he finds somebody else.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Well I believe he does support me... he listens and comments on the situation logically.. sometimes though its not like he is the girl friend type. hehe i mean he's not much of a person who knows how to console you... :(
• Portugal
14 Oct 10
aww your bf seems really like mine^^ he also cares for me but when i tell him a problem i have he always see it in a way that i dont like like if someone hurts me he says dont be angry respect the person and bla bla and i be angry. but i know is his way to support me^^ even sometimes i wish he said i will protect you and who is that person to hurt you ahah^^
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 10
When I'm feeling trouble and sad, my bf will be the first person I approach and talk to about my feeling. He will asks me if I want to talk about it and he said he is there to listen and share. If I was around him at the time then he will also give me a big hug, then if not then he will pay all his attention and listen to my problem. Then after that he will ask me if he could do anything to help or to make me feel better. He always tells me that he ought to look after me and don't want to see my sad and cry. That is why even if I'm always far away from him, but I can never cheat on him on find anyone better than him.
• Portugal
10 Oct 10
thats so cute^^ he is a very sweet guy^^ im happy that when he is near you and see you sad always hold you and listens to you and support you^^ thats too sweet^^ even if you are far he listens and dont want you to be sad and cry and says that will be always there for you is bcs he really loves you much^^ sure you cant cheat him. he didnt deserve that at all^^ also you cant find a better guy than him^^ also i dont think you could cheat a guy ever^^ you are very sweet also^^
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
hmhmhm hi?? actually i don't have a boyfriend now a days ,, but i in my past bf , every time i have a problem he always help me ... like .. if i got sick ,he will be the one who buy medicine for me.. and if i have a problem of my family he will always comfort me all the time,.,
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
sorry that you dont have a bf anymore :( but if he was so sweet to you what happened? he bought medicines when you were sad and if you had a problem he always comforted you. why did you break up? maybe you can have him back^^ maybe he still loves you if he was so sweet to you^^ you should talk with him again^^ at least be friends^^
• India
6 Oct 10
well my girl friend supports me in my all actions I do and yes whenever I am sad even she becomes sad she helps me to cheer up and always helps sharing my sadness..
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
thats great that your gf always support you in your actions^^ and that when you are sad she also is sad^^ is bcs she really cares and loves you^^ and is great that she cheer you up and shares your sadness so you dont feel alone^^ she is a good gf^^ you must be proud of her^^ im sure you also help her when she is sad too right?^^ you are sweet also^^ so i guess so^^
@pjnjclyn (176)
• Newton, New Jersey
6 Oct 10
When I show that I am sad yes he does show it I am not one that shows when I am sad I would prefer to keep it to myself but back to the question yes he does support me when he knows about it and there are times that I do not show it and he knows and will try and make me feel better.
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
so cute that when you are sad he is there for you^^ and even when you dont show you are sad he knows it and still goes to support you^^ thats too cute^^ you have a good bf^^ he is too cute^^ you are lucky to have a bf like that ^^ but im sure you also are too sweet to him so you deserve it^^ is great that he makes you feel better when you feel sad^^