a girl is trying to get too close to my bf T_T

Hey , Dont feel sad about it. The best thing is just have a talk with yr bf. Ask him what exactly is going on. If he says that they are just friends than go and talk o that girl. Threaten him to stay away from yr bf. :) Try it will work..

Let her get closer to ur bf and then lt ur Love win.... :) Be happy and trust wht u have done..

You know what? I can translate it for you... I can understand Tagalog because I'm a Filipina...

To me as you feel she is a threat to you then you don't fully trust your boyfriend. If you did then this wouldn't be an issue. If you are in 2 different countries then how can your relationship work? In all honesty, it can't. If i was you i would find someone that can be there in person beside you rather than having a long distance relationship where you dont see eachother and where any of you could cheat. Your doubts say it all. I would move on and have a proper relationship with someone you can actually see and touch in person often. Sorry to be so honest.

Best you can do is just have faith, what did she tell him in tagalog anyways? Perhaps I can translate for you.

I'm very sorry to hear that you go thrue so much pain..However, i think that this is a puppy love, and i'm sure that after a while you will realize it too. I think you are very much in love with the fact that a lot of things prevent you two from being together, and you let your imagination run away and think that the sacrifices you have to do make you deserve this impossible love and it is the greatest love of all times. But is not like this. Be wise enough for now please and do not throw yourself in this "kinda love" wich can couse you misery. It does not worth it, and stops you from seing the big forest because you bumped into one tree.

You know my friend. You cannot avoid to think to be worry about that matter. Because men, easily encourage when the girl show something to your bf...there is a possibility also they are now on...But you need to believe your bf at the moment till you don't have proof that he is committed cheating with you... Have a nice day!

I think that you are probably worrying over nothing. People send late messages (hellos, goodbyes) all of the time, and people, especially females, don't usually have problems expressing how they feel. If I was sad, I would want my friends to comfort me. Worrying so much is bad, because it may lead your boyfriend to feel as if you don't trust him. If there's one thing that destroys relationships as quick as infidelity, it's insecurity. Good luck!

Hi dear, don't worry too much about that. I understand how you feel but since you two are far away from each other then you just gonna have to be more patience. One thing that you must remember, if one man really loves us and being faithful to us, then no matter how close others want to come, we are still the one in his heart. But if he decided to be unfaithful and cheat on us, then he's not good for us, it is just exactly the same for women.

My husband is working abroad and far from me too. I know how it feels to be away from your love one. At first I was like you afraid that there might be some women who wants to be close to my husband but since I trust him and I love him I just don't think about it anymore. Just trust your boyfriend and have faith to each other. So your boyfriend is a Filipino? I'm from Philippines too. Don't worry I know your bf loves you because you're pretty and charming.

you can't do anything about it...just try not to think about it really much and thrust him, if he said he loves you and he's not interested in her. think about it like this he could cheat on you without you even knowing, so why worry...if you keep asking him about that girl he'll feel stressed and in the end you'll have a fight and maybe break up :). so try to thrust him if you really love him and you want you realtionship to work:) good luck

Hi sweetlove: "If you love someone, set him free' If he comes back, he's yours; If he doesn't, he never was." "Letting go is just another way to say "I Love You.'" I hope these songs could take a bit of your sadness away. Cheers!

awww don't worry so much you don't know whats going on so don't worry yourself so much. if you boyfriend says he loves you and wants you then he does have a little faith in him.

Hey you are very innocent.Well if you trust your bf completely then you should not worry.May be she is in love with him but if he is yours then nothing wrong will happen.Just tell your bf that stay away from the girl who loves him before she gets too serious.And i was thinking about another possibility too.I guess she is just flirting or trying to make you angry.You should not take anything seriously.Keep Smiling and Enjoy the love life.Hope my reply is useful to you.

The problem with being so far away from him is that you worry about what you cannot see. It is possible for men and women to be friends and just be friends. I find some men easier to talk to and they were just friends nothing else. A friend once told me "if you love someone then let them go, if they love you they will come back". In the case with men, questioning them too closely about how they feel about other women can push them away. Some men like women to cling and some hate it. They are so hard to work out. They say the same about us. All you can do is let him know that you love him and if he loves you as much then all will be well.

Do not worry girl!! Just chill... From your discussion I can understand your personality and nature. You are a soft hearted girl. You enjoy romance and mushy feelings. Your bf knows this too. So, just be confident that no girl in this world can love your guy the way you do. You are a passionate lover and every guy needs one such life partner. You stand by him whenever he needs you and is in trouble. Even though he is far away, always ask him his problems and give him solution. Guys can also be very emotional at times, this happens mostly when they know that they will get consolation from someone they love i.e their girl friends These guys are really smart The girl you are talking about may ask his help in her bad times but I don't think she can do the same for your bf when he is suffering. There are girls who remember guys only when they need help or are in trouble From your description about that girl, she seems to be that kind of a girl. You do not worry, you will never lose your partner as I am sure he knows your importance in his life

I must say that long distance relationships are hard to endure. I have been through my share of long distance relationships and the trust just seems to be on a thin line, because you don't know what could be going on and such. But, you say you love him right? Well, then the next question is do you trust him. If so, then you should just drop it and believe that what he is telling you is true and trust that, he won't cheat on you. If not then maybe you shouldn't be in the relationship, because there could be no good relationship with out trust. Good luck and I hope that everything works out for you. Trisha

I understand how you feel. I also feel the same way at times and to think that I'm already married to my man. lolz. It's normal to feel that way but we should not let that feeling sink in too deep to the point that we don't trust our partners anymore. Just be more sweet, caring and thoughtful to your boyfriend. Don't worry too much about it. There are guys who get annoyed if a girl wants to be really close with them to the point that the girl becomes showy with what she feels.

put some pressure and scare her off i had many girls who tried to do this and in other past relationships too, always worked you look at her like you are going go hurt her, just stand very near like your boyfriend's body guard, it always work i promise of course you don't feel inside to hurt her, i never did, but i acted like i would it's even funny, as she started i find it really disgusting, i never play with guys who have someone, not even a weird look, it's not fair, it's so wrong and girls like that have no values if your boyfriend start to like it, he doesn't deserve you, jump out

I am from the Philippines and I definitely understand what the girl said/commented. I know how you feel, my boyfriend has been away for 2 1/2 years also when his office sent him to Mindanao. Is it also in the Philippines but quite far here in Manila. We only see each other once a month and it was very hard for to cope up with. I thought of leaving my present job and go there so we could be together. But he said that it is not a good idea because my job is quite okay and I know he is right. When he was here with me, a number sent him a message on his mobile phone and he didn't know the sender. So he asked me. I have good memory and I tried to memorized the number and texted it. And I was so shocked when the girl replied that he likes my bf so much and she is asking me to just leave my bf to her. Everytime my bf is here, she texted me so many things that would really ruin our relationship. I was so mad that time and started to argue with him. But he just told me to ignore that girl because it has nothing to do with him. But I can't have peace of mind thinking that he is there with that girl for 28 days while he is just here with me for 2 days only. I texted the girl calmly to know what is really happening. At first she replied nicely to me and started to say something bad about my boyfriend. Then I started to realized that, why does she wants me to leave my bf if she thinks that my bf is not a good person or someone that I could trust. What I did was I changed my number and though it was so hard, I tried to ignore everything, I just believed to what my bf said. Because in the end, whatever happens to our relationship, I can face the world without guilt and regret. We have been together for so long and so many problems have already came between us. Good thing that we stick to each other. I hope you guys can do it also. If you really love each other, distance can't separate you. I really hope that your relationship with him will be founded by respect, trust and love.