Big trouble, should i call for help.
By jagjit273
@jagjit273 (1754)
India
October 6, 2010 12:24pm CST
Well I am in a Big Trouble, Actually I have to reapy a loan of Rs 32.000 in Next 15 days and i dont have a Single penny with me.Should I call up My Maternal Uncle and other relatives for help, Or
Should I wait for gods grace,So that,I shouldnt be ashamed before them.
Should I ask them for help, and try them and See if they would help or Not In this bad time of mine
I couldnt decide,I am Double Minded. One side says just pick up the phone and tell them my problem and ask for help and my Other side says to wait as Money is on its way to clear my loan, But I dont know the resource.
What Should i do ?
Can u help me In deciding.
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10 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
Please pardon me for asking, but how much is that in dollar? well you have 15 days, and it is really up to you. if you think that 15 days are going to pass by very quick then I believe you should call your maternal uncle and other relatives for help. But I really hope (finger crossed) they will be willing to help you. To find out ealier if they can help you or not is better than calling them on 14th day and find out that can't help or not willing to help. So it makes if you call as soon as possible. I hope I'm helping to ease your mind a bit, I wish you a good luck and have a nice day!
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
7 Oct 10
Well My friend its 700 dollars, that i have to pay aproximately.Thanks for your sugestion and Showing your Willingness to Help.I am really greatful to you.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
6 Oct 10
Hi Jagjit,
I'm not sure how much money that is in american money. I would say if it is a very large amount that it would be best if you tried to work out a payment plan with the lender. I don't think it is a good idea to borrow from family and friends because if you are unable to repay it in a timely manner, it could cause some hard feelings. That's how I'd handle it anyway.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
7 Oct 10
First off CALM DOWN! this way you can think rationally. You need to contact the bank or company responsible for giving the loan and tell them you are experiencling financial hardship at this moment and would like an extension. Realistically speaking you cant get blood from a stone. Meaning you cant get money where there is none. They'll have to wait. The company knows this so they may give the extension because its the easiest and less expensive way to go. On the other hand it may be easy to ask a family member to pay it off then owe them money. Depending on how your family interacts with one another, this may be the best way to handle this situation. Afterall its better to keep it in family. Your family member will be a little more lenient (I hope). Just a thought but maybe if you cant afford to pay back the loan you shouldnt have taken it out in firstplace. Having to struggle a bit gives you character and the appreciation for small things. Not everyone or everything should involve money. Dl
@sbramirezB (60)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
many of us when we encounter a problem that we are selves cannot solve it. it's just normal to beg for some help to another people because if we our selves can solve on the problem then GOD will not create a woman to be with us but because we are not capable to solve problem alone that why GOD create a partner to be with us, what i mean is that man cannot live alone....so if you cannot solve it by your self then ak for some help.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
ask help to your family^^ is too much money that you need and you have only 15 days to have it. for sure dont wait for god to give you. im not saying that god wont help you is not that is just that we cant just wait for things to come to us. you really need to call your family for them to help you^^ only way for you to earn all that money would be if you won in lottery. but if you risk and then dont win? if you cant pay that in 15 days the money you will have to pay will grow more and more so dont risk it^^ family must be there to help us in bad moments too^^ thats the meaning of having a family^^ to help us when we need also^^
@haxorfreek (523)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
Hi there,
I believe its time for you to call for help.
You should try to talk to your family and relatives first.
They are your own flesh and blood, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Im sure they would understand, although we are not certain if they have such amount right now, but i think its much more better to try and be sure than feel sorry later.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
6 Oct 10
don't wait and look for your frieds and relative's help. yea you're right in this kind of momentns you realise which of them really care for you. good luck:)
@clash_111 (93)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
hi jagjit.. Also been that trouble.. Better inform your relatives as early as now to have all prepared before the due date.. And while waiting for it, if you have any other resources to earn that amount or any amount you may earn within those days, return it back to your relative to less the amount they lend you.. That way you're working on both..