What would you do if your gf/bf having affair with another guy/girl ?

No matter how much I love him, I can't accept the fact that he's going to kiss another girl. So probably I'll probably break up with him.

If this condition would come to me, I would definitely leave such person after confirming the affair with someone else. If someone is not sincere to you then better to leave than get much more hurted. Loyalty and sincerity are the main keys to a good Relationship. Without that nothing matters.

This situation happened to me. After I confirmed it and tried to find out as much as possible I actually broke down and was heart destroyed for a couple of months. Doing a lot better now, after I broke up with her but she still pops up in my head from to time but that's normal. Your friend should break up with her and find someone loyal, either that or cheater on her back. Whatever, his prerogative is. I was angry, sad, and other negative emotions. It takes time, another girl, clubbing, and Vegas trips to put someone back on track. Good luck people who got cheated on!! Don't be played, be the one who does the playing!!

Before making a rush decision, I definitely am going to make sure if it was really true. I will asked in a proper way face to face. I also will try to convince him that telling the truth is not bad, as keeping two partners at the same time won't do him any good because he will only end up himself being hated by one or both partners, hope you see my point. Then IF it was true, then OK I choose to back off, even if he tries to stop me then my answer would be "if we meant for each other then we'll always run into each other again when the time is right". Of course I will be upset, it will makes me cry, but I believe I will be stronger to leave than stay with him, argue about it, and keep that feeling of being two-timed. I have my pride and what's he has done doesn't worth for it. Let the other girl have him, because he may do the same thing to her with someone else, he may not. I just don't see the point why I should waste my time giving him a chance to prove his love, as I said, if he was meant for me then the right time will makes it eventually happens.

if your friend isnt sure he should be sure first^^ who told him that she was having an affair with a guy in her building? he should talk with that person and ask him where did he see them together so he can see with his own eyes^^ anyway if i knew my bf was having an affair with other girl i would leave him. also if your friend be sure that the girl is cheating on him he must do the same and leave her. he can find a girl that really loves him and wont cheat^^ so he shouldnt accept her after it. but first he has to comfirm if is true or not. but go there and see. if he ask to his gf is bad bcs she can say to other guy to dont meet her for awhile for your friend think she didnt cheat on him. so he has to appear without his gf knows it and catch her with that guy. the best way to catch her is ask person that told him he was being cheated where he saw his gf with that guy and what hour.

Well if it was me I'd try to be understanding if I can! But if she did it again that's when I'd leave her...

If it was a one time only fling, I will forgive it, but if he does it a second time, he is out the door because I don't need that. I say forgive them the first time because there is usually a reason behind it, but after that I wouldn't because now you know that something is wrong, and it's no longer appropriate to be in that relationship because it is clear that that person doesn't love you.

I don't know about all this boy/girl...girl/boy stuff. If my wife was with another man, I think I would just kill them both and go to jail...but if my wife was with another girl, I may have to ask if I could join them...it really is hard to say what I would do until it happens though. I may just walk in on it see what is going on and walk out, never to return. Your friend, should find out as much of the truth as possible, and then make the decision based on his intuition. Sincerely and With Appreciation.

Having the one you love cheat on you can be something devestating to face. There would be confusion, pain, sorrow and maybe even hatred involved. I would have to decide how much the relationship and this person really means to me. If the feelings are strong enough, i would have to forgive them. i might not forget it, but the love would still be there.

For me I want that to choose between you and the other one so that you noticed that if what you are to him.

right!...confirm it first before anything else,i suggest that he needs to confirm it straight from his gf...then if his gf deny bout it,that's the only time for him to find if it is true or not in his own right way.

in my opinion,your friend should go out if the situation is true.because she will avoid having affair with others if she is really loved you.she cheats on you. you forgive her and live wih her at last. but you will not believe her all the time.especially when she comes with other guy.that will make you upset.so just let her go and fing someone who really love you.

it's hard to tell, because it didn't happen to me it...so I don't really know what I would do. I guess it depends on how long you two had been together, on how much I love the other person...because if you love her really much, you could forgive certain things, even cheating. about me I say that I couldn't forgieve someone who cheated on me...but this is what i say now...I don't know what will happen if I see myself in this situation

what would i do? well...definitely i will broke up with my guy.... and let him be happy to the one he really loves.... for your friends situation, yes the first he should do is ask the girl politely if it is really true that she is having an affair with another guy....and if his girl confirmed it then he should just be happy to where his girl gonna be happy....

If i saw him with another girl in holding hands and sweet that i know only lovers can do that well I feel hurt but i'll talk to him. Well talking to him peacefully that was I cannot promise because that was too hurt and for sure I cannot hold my emotions. Otherwise it is better to make it clear as soon as possible that we can move into another directions of life. Talking and have discussions about it is better for sure.

Well dude ... Straight answer man ask him to break up with her .... there is no easy way out of it ..i have seen my friend going crazy over how to get his cheating girlfriend to come back to him ... but it was not possible.. if that girl is having a side affair ..she deserves a shock of dumping !

If she is cheating on him, he should absolutely break up with her. Cheating is NOT ok and hey, if she's doing it now, what will she do in 10 years? Yep- still cheat. 20 years? Still cheating! It's not worth it, your friend deserves someone as devoted to him as he is to her.