is your lover too jealous?^^

Portugal
October 6, 2010 3:43pm CST
hi guys^^ is your lover too jealous?^^ about my bf he is a bit jealous^^ not too too much but is a bit yes^^ but he says he trusts me much^^ and he loves me so thats all that matters^^ anyway im a bit jealous too even more bcs a girl that seems are getting too close to him. i dont want bcs of her our relationship ends. anyway he said he wants only me and loves me more each day ahah^^ so im happy for it^^ what about you guys?^^ is your lover too jealous? please share^^
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• United States
7 Oct 10
lol yes she is lol but i find it cute, the way she talk about other girls having to do with me scars me sometimes lol but its so cute i love it.
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• Portugal
8 Oct 10
your lover? you dont mean your lover but your best friend right? she is jealous of your ex gfs? well thats normal bcs you had few already^^ and bcs you didnt ask her yet to be your gf^^ so she is waiting ahah and is afraid you choose other girl maybe^^ anyway im happy you think is cute that she is jealous ahah^^ that shows she loves you^^
• United States
8 Oct 10
not my exs just girls in general. and asking is not the thing seeing that she doesn't do long distance things so its just when i'm close to her we will be together i don't think i have to ask her out i think its understood that if i'm near her we are a couple
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
aw i see^^ yes sure she doesnt want to have a long distance relationship ok^^ anyway yes if you are closer to her you can be with her^^ maybe you dont have to ask her^^ but still you should. if when she is near you say now you are my gf without ask her first maybe she can see it a bit rude^^ so you should tell her you love her and ask if she wants to be with you^^
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
hmhhm for me it depends upon the situation..,,. but i think in my past they are too jealous all the time especially to my close friends,.,.,,.and i think they don't have trust to me,.,.,.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
sorry that your ex bfs didnt trust you :( and were so jealous of your friends. but is normal that close friends makes jealous^^ im sure if you have a bf and he has a very close friend that is a girl you will be jealous too right? about me i would^^ bcs im very far from my bf and i know that girls can try to get him. anyway i know he loves me so i wont give up of him^^
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
my ex boyfriend was a jealous guy.but i love it, LOL! because i can feel it that he really love me because if he dont care about me he will not be jealous at all. jealous in a nice way. i love it super.! hahahaa
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
ahah me too^^ i love jealous guys^^ and sure it means he really cares for you^^ but there was an ex of mine that was always jealous and saying i love many guys. and was always turning his back to me and we broke up. couldnt stand his accusations always. so is good to have a jealous bf but not one that makes a big deal of that all the time^^ ahah anyway im happy that you have fun when your bf is jealous^^ i used to do that with my ex^^
• United States
7 Oct 10
my husband is very jealous and i am of him a lot too. we like it that way though. its like we are super protective over each other. makes our relationship work a lot better. too. sometimes its a good thing to have a jealous man :) lol
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
ahah thats great that both are jealous so is all ok ahah^^ and sure is ok to be like that^^ that way you show love for each other^^ and sure relationship can work better^^ is great to have a jealous bf^^ but mine trusts me^^ even he is insecure sometimes^^ but i really know he loves me bcs he cant leave me ever^^ anytime we argue he can never leave^^
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
My boyfriend is not the jealous type. He is confident of himself. He sometimes makes fun if someone shows interest on me but he never got mad because of it. And me? I still sometimes fell jealous but I couldn't find a reason to be so I just stop.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
ahah he is confident of himself? ahah maybe he thinks he is too cute for you to choose other guy instead of him ahah^^ is cute that he didnt get angry when a guy shows he likes you^^ just shows your bf trust you and knows you love him^^ anyway is good that you feel jealous sometimes too^^ and dont stop bcs it shows you care for him^^ but if you think you dont have reason to be jealous then dont^^ be happy with your bf^^
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
He was. He feels as though my status messages are for someone else when they are for anyone who cares to read them. lol And he asks me all the time who are those guys who keep commenting on my wall in facebook. Like, can't I have any male friends anymore? Anyway, I'm not sure if we're still together and it's making me feel great!=D
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
ahah he is jealous when other guys comment you on facebook? ahah like all guys i guess^^ yes is like we cant have male friends^^ anyway how you dont know if you are still together or not? did you ask a time in your relationship? ahah you feel great? ahah why? for punish him a little? ahah^^ i see^^ well i wish he doesnt hurt you^^ and that he really loves you^^ if he is so jealous is bcs he loves you i guess^^ so lets see what he does to make up to you^^
@banban (601)
• China
7 Oct 10
Well, not too jealous, just a little bit. He's jealous means he cares about me, that's not bad. And I don't want to hurt him. I'm not that kind of girl who wants to have several boyfriends and play with them. The right one is enough and satisfied. But if he will become too jealous, that's not good. You see, once someone become so, his mind may become unstable and will be easily hurt someone else.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
thats good that your bf is a bit jealous^^ that way you know he really cares and love you^^ im happy you respect him and dont cheat^^ and sure a guy is enough^^ dont need have many ones to be happy^^ sure if he became too jealous would be too bad and relationship could end. and not trust other person all the time is too bad. and hurting. i know that bcs a guy did that to me before and things ended. i will trust my bf and wish he loves me^^
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
7 Oct 10
Hi Sweetlove, Jealousy will kill even the best relationship. I broke up with a guy because of his extreme jealousy. At first it was cool and showed that he really cared about me but it quickly got old and it felt more insulting that endearing. I am an honest person and I have never cheated on anyone I've been with...not ever. The accusations not only were insulting but they took up what little time we had to spend together so that instead of making some good memories and growing closer, we were spending more time arguing about non-issues. It seemed that our whole relationship was about me reassuring him that I did nothing wrong when in fact I did not. It got old. As for your situation...I don't know. It is so hard carrying on a long distance relationship. You have to have trust and a lot of it. I would listen to your boyfriend. This girl does not really sound like much of a threat so far...maybe just has a crush on him.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
sid^^ im not very jealous^^ and im sorry your bf was and ruined it. sorry :( about this girl she said to him when im down you always cheer me up but.. a message like this. so she is closer to him. and we are far so is normal im a bit afraid. but i trust he wont cheat but about fall for her how can i know? he cant control it. unless he really loves me too much like he says. i believe him but if girls tries something im afraid he sees i have a caring and sweet girl near why be with a far one? thats what i mean. thanks for worry^^
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
7 Oct 10
Hi eetloveforeve, No, I don't have a jealousy issue in my relationship. I think a little jealousy is healthy. It is when the jealousy gets out of hand that a partner needs to worry. When you have a partner that is too jealous, the relationship can become dangerous and dysfunctional. Trust is a very important aspect of a healthy relationship. If a partner has shown not signs of cheating or wanting to cheating, then there should not be an issue of mistrust. Since we are all prone to being jealous if someone gets too close to our significant other, we have to trust that our partner is interested in only us, even if the outside person is interested in them. Not trusting a perfectly innocent partner could make the situation worse and may lead to cheating.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
yes we must trust^^ and is good that you dont have jealous problem in your relationship^^ and yes a bit of jealous is healthy^^ and shows you care^^ anyway yes if you cant trust your lover it can end your relationship. your lover can feel tired of explain you that doesnt like noone else. and sure we all are jealous^^ is a sign of love but we cant exaggerate^^
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
7 Oct 10
I don't think that she is too jealous. I think she is too good from hearts. And I always like her cuteness. Because she is very cute and I always like her smiles. And try to do anything for her smile. But in present she is not with me because yet she not accepts me as her lover because she told me that her parents never allow for this. But I think I loved her a lot and want to give her all happiness of the world. And I also want to getting married with her. But I am still waiting for her and I hope that one day she surely comes to me if she realizes that I love her truly.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
i see you really love her^^ but she said her parents wouldnt accept ok but what about her feelings? does she love you? you need to know if she loves you or not. or else you are waiting her and nothing. is already 5 years you love her and she isnt with you yet. is time for you to know if she loves you or not. if she doesnt you need to find other girl that loves you and cares for you^^ dont wait if she doesnt love you. go ask her how she feels for you^^
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Jealousy is nature in a relationship. Somebody says that jealousy is a way of showing that you don't trust your partner.But for me, sometimes, jealousy is a way of showing our love to someone.If you don't get jealous, you're just proving that you really don't care to your partner, hence, this shows that you really don't mind and love your partner, right? ?
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
jealous show that you really care^^ and is normal to have^^ if dont have is bcs you dont care so much^^ i agree with you^^ but dont be too too jealous^^ or that can end a relation. but sure a bit of jealous is good^^ means you love your lover^^ jealous is not dont trust. is be afraid that other person gets too close and takes our lover away. more like that^^
@melanierg (129)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
my boyfriend is very understanding and he doesn't want us to fight for something that has been done before. and now we are careful not to do anything that might ruin us.
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
im happy that your bf is understanding^^ and sure shouldnt fight for something that happened before^^ but did a boy try something with you? before? is it? anyway you are right being careful to dont ruin your relation^^ you must care and love each other much^^ and dont let other people try to put you apart^^ wish you the best^^ be happy with him^^
• India
7 Oct 10
Well my girlfriend is a bit jealous because I quit popular among the teachers and the girls in the class ,normally girls find chances to talk to me I normally don't talk to girls except my girlfriend because I am really shy and even I am jealous because she is the most popular girl in the college but I trust her so I don't are about it because I know she rarely talks to a guy..
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
ahah your gf is jealous bcs you are popular between girls?^^ thats cute^^ anyway you can talk with other girls too as friends^^ dont be shy^^ and if you are a bit jealous is ok too^^ but she could also talk with guys^^ is ok as friends^^ im happy that you both love each other^^ and jealous is a sign of that^^ wish it can last^^ be happy^^
@eamr_25 (26)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
well...im not in a relationship right now but I would just like to comment my past relationship here. Those time, I'd really wish that I can make him jealous for me to feel that he really care about me. I believe that a person who felt jealousy with somebody or someone important for him, really love and care for taht person. My x-bf" i think dont really loved me. He never got jealous or show some concern about me. I told him that me and a friend of mine (girl) will go the the park and stay there over night without anything important to do. We just wanted to experience what kind of environment that the park has when most of the people are at home and sleeping or resting? He just say "OK"..no more, no less...
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
sorry for it :( your ex really didnt care for you :( if he cared he would say and who else will be there? can i go also? and things like that. also wouldnt want you and your friend girl be alone at night in the park. is a bit dangerous. im sorry for it :( but dont be sad^^ he is the loser bcs lost a girl that loved him^^ but you didnt lose nothing^^ you won the chance to find a better guy that will love you and care and be jealous ahah^^ smile^^
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
My lover is too jealous but i candle it.!.