I am a person who likes to work hard ...but why there is no change in my life?
By rifnee
@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
October 6, 2010 7:55pm CST
Basically, humans do have to try ...
I've tried most, for me this was the too maximum,
.. but why my life is still not changed,
still can not get more money to be able to save money, ...
I ask the best way, how bossss ...
whether I should stay with my job at the office, or whether I should take the initiative to seek new business?
Is there any useful motivation?
15 responses
@pinkberryzz (189)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Hi. I'm sorry to hear that. I think you should just stay on the course and try to find some other means of earning. Tomorrow is another day and you'll never know. Maybe you'll get lucky. I believe luck is part of anything. We should also pray for a better life.
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
the best motivation:
Love, Hope and FAith...
MayGod Bless Us All, Always...
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
We do having same problem wayback then my friend, I used to be just like what you are. I earn money which is not sufficient for me and my family needs even though I have tried all different ways to earn a little more just like selling meals during lunch time and break time but still my hard work did not give me any luck in return. But I did not quit because I have learn it from some one that if you stopped today and quit trying you will not succeed. Trying harder is not the key but the most important thing is that never quit. So just keep going and keep trying because for a people like us success is inevitable.
@charmaine36 (145)
• Jamaica
7 Oct 10
Why not do both? use your spare time to start the business and see how it goes. It's always good to have more than one source of income, in that way there'll always be something to fall back on just in case.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
7 Oct 10
I agree, it never hurts to have more than one income. In fact, I think most people should have that and I am trying to get there myself!
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 10
Actually, how to start a business is easy and free with no charge at all. Requirement is only one, start by having a DREAM. Because the dream you can create an exceptional business idea, until finally the idea that business is processed into a lucrative new business opportunities.
@t2_group (60)
• Vietnam
9 Oct 10
Hi Rifnee,
I find out that you are so pessimistic person to life. Come on, please. Always thinking the good and bright of the problem or fact. I think that if you work hard, you will be richer some day. Believe me, God is always beside you. Good luck !
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 10
everything or the beginning want to do activities or open a business does have to try first,try here defined as the beginning
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
7 Oct 10
You are right humans do try but sometimes its fate which is beyond our control. My life is also stuck in a phase and i am unable to find a way out but this platform have given me an idea to change our life. You and me can be quite helpful for each other. I can arrange some good financial support for you and i am 1000% serious about this. If you are interested give me your personal email so i can mail you the details of my idea.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
7 Oct 10
You give me a very good impression. You are very sincere hard-working person. That is the most important pre-requisite to be successful in life, career and all aspects of life. Keep working, and you will definitely be successful and your wishes will be fulfilled !
Best wishes to you !
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Oct 10
This is so true for many and all I can suggest is that if this persist that you quietly seek other employment opportunities as most times it is easier to get a job when you have one. As oppose to being hired when you do not have a job.
Otherwise unless you have starting capital it can be quite difficult to start an online business with out the funds that goes into it. So please try and obtain a worthwhile job and in the interim explore some opportunities that perhaps you can invest in but not until you have enough to gamble with. Good luck and hope you employment venturing goes well.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
7 Oct 10
I agree with the others, that you should try to do both. These things take time so it is very important to be patient and not to give up! I have experienced this myself many times. Hang in there!
@liliuyungood (138)
• Chile
7 Oct 10
what i want to say is you can choose another job if you find you won't have a good and bright future in your office .try it ,maybe you will success in the new job!
@hippiemomdiaries (815)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Sometimes,success comes not just by working hard alone. You have to ask yourself - 'do I love what I do?' 'Is this my core gift'? If you love what you are doing, you don't feel like it's work at all, you're loving every minute of it. Also, patience has it's rewards. Timing is also a crucial thing. It will come at the right time and the right circumstances :-)
@ango21 (4)
• Trinidad And Tobago
8 Oct 10
yes there is motivation,you maybe trying too many different things at the same time,to gain more money and to save money you need to choose a particular goal that you are good at and stay focus hard work brings success a good way to start is to look at your everyday life style and approach it differently give yourself space and time,impress your boss by doing some additional classes and maybe this could be the turning point in your life.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
i was like you a few years back. i always had so much drive and the will to do a lot of things which i thought would jumpstart a very good career ahead of me.i had a lot of things planned out for the next months even the next years. i moved from one job to another because i never found satisfaction in what i do; i always wanted more. what happened after those years, i ended up not having a stable job and not being able to save up for what i was aiming for. so along the way, while i was struggling to find my niche and some ways to gain more knowledge to earn, i did learn a few things that made me realize i wasn't doing it right.
first, your perseverance is good. just keep the energy going, but take some time to stop and rest your mind. focus and take things a day at a time. you need to finish tasks today before you can move to another so don't rush.planning is good but overdoing it will only frustrate you especially if you weren't able to achieve what you set. second, even if you have worked hard as you say but you still don't see any change in your life, don't give up. maybe you just need more luck. or it's not yet the proper time for you to be handling more than you can. be patient and believe that at the right time and with hard work you will achieve what you aim for.
i've always had this thinking since i realized i was not going anywhere even if i was hardworking like you are. now i started running my own business and is personally doing all the advices i told you about because they helped me a lot in dealing with the situation that you are in now. goodluck to you! :)