of kissing and making up...

Relationships can be quite difficult indeed, especially when one compromises more than the other. I am sorry you are experiencing this. The only thing I can suggest is taht you seriously discuss this with your partner as really communication is the key. However if your partner is not on the same level then sometimes you will find your self hurt more then them. Good luck with this and I see you are new to mylot.. so a very warm welcome to you on myLot and wish you a very successful membership.

its all about compromise. of course when you're in any relationship you have to learn to compromise and accept your significant others for flaws and all, but don't be lenient on everything. a line must be drawn when it comes to certain things. if you always let him get away with things, then they will continue to happen and you'll travel through the same cycle. when you're both calm, sit down and talk about the issues and a way to solve it.

I think men are like this, they are good but sometimes they do things which really irritates us and when asked they say they did not know! My boyfriend is like this and I explained to him several times in these five years, he is nice but sometimes things are done by him which makes me angry at him and when he justifies then you get more angry.

A relationship is give and take, it is nice of you to be able to know what you should do, however, since a relationship is a two way traffic, your husband should know how to adjust himself too so you can both live in harmony. Anyway, argument is normal, what important is you both know how to make up for each other's shortcomings...God bless your marriage...