Loved or loving?
By rifnee
@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
October 6, 2010 8:37pm CST
How can we love if we don't begin to love?
While starting to love it is still speculative to be loved.
Greater chance to be loved if we began to love.
If we do not begin to show love, the chance of not being loved will be greater.
Honestly, I often ask myself, why am I always selfish, why do I just expect someone to love me without thinking that I also have to love him.
Am I wrong?
How about you...
6 responses
@sbramirezB (60)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
It so happen sometimes and it wasn't intended to feel that way...
we hurt others in a way that we didn't expect them to be hurt so much and we too experience thing..
that's why we need to be open minded every time to be able to understand things that goes out of our way..
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
Yup ... you are right ...
Why every person who has a relationship with me feel they have hurted,
but no meaningful action from me, did not mean to hurt.
Do they just want to find a sensation just to expect love and attention from me,
or maybe I'm less sensitive.
Your answer was right, openness is the most important factor in establishing a relationship.
@sbramirezB (60)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Thank you...
Love really has to go that way to see to it whose willing to hold on and fight for it...
Love is accepting the realness of the person themselves that you loved and being able to make a difference to their lives...
@jvculanagF (66)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I agree..Well, according to the bible, we should LOVE OUR NEIGHBORS.So we are expected not just to be loved, but also to love. Showing our love to someone is a necessary thing.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 10
Speaking of the bible, is a perfect source for menuntn life,
Count aspects of life in it, no one is wrong.
But as a man who always did not escape the mistakes,
the right path is always forgotten, humans too sure with pleasure even though they are wrong in life.
By the way thanks for comment.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 10
Before we want to be loved, we should first love, that's the best man,
But the fact that there are different, especially what was experienced by almost all women, essentially all women are to be loved,
yea ... Women should not only be responding to the love given by a man.
Because women are part of a living man, woman created from his rib.
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 10
I think you are right, we must love and be loved by that principle of life
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 11
I think like you, people love each other through the stages and processes, how can we love each other if there is no feeling like it
