do you believe your partner?
By harry89
@harry89 (2330)
India
6 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
7 Oct 10
If by "set him free" you mean breaking up just to see what he'll do, that's just absurd. I do not understand the thinking behind that. If you want to be together and the relationship is healthy and functional, pulling such stupid stunts is just pointless and insulting.
I also don't agree that being in a relationship is some kind of trap to be "set free" from. A good relationship shouldn't be confining or constructing at all.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
7 Oct 10
Well, setting free does not mean to break up it just mean that let him do what he wants to do not interfere in what he is doing even if you think that its not good for you. And to have a good relationship you must have the trust and that trust was the thing i am talking about in this disscusion. I hope you understant. Have a nice day
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
7 Oct 10
Well, like I said, a relationship should never be confining or constricting. Both people should do whatever they want, so long as it doesn't interfere or hurt the other.
@melmabb (579)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
If setting a partner free with reasons then i think it is Ok...Setting someone Free and giving the person a space to grow to think,review and decide...then if one finally decides then he will back and be on your side for the rest of your life.But when you let the person Free without any reason then i think you must think a Million
Times, because its either that Person will not come back to you, or you will be looking for that person and it will be the other way...
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Hmmm.. There might be something about it, but I would be insulted if I am the person being let go and my partner is hoping that I'd return.
If you really love someone, is it worth to take a relationship to the test? I mean, I know life tests our relationships but should we do it intentionally just to prove that we love each other that much?
I just don't see the point of doing such to satisfy one's ego.
@med889 (5941)
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7 Oct 10
I think he will come back because my partner is someone who likes to work a lot to get money and he does not have time for himself, and a little for me as he works a lot so even if I set him free he will search for a work and get money instead of searching of a woman and lose money.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I know he will come back because he loves me and our kids. I trust him that's why I'll let him go and do what ever he wants to do. He's been always free from me because he's working abroad and he still comes back to us so I think there's nothing to worry about.
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I'm a bit confused with this idea of letting go of someone just to test them if they would come back. I think this shouldn't be done intentionally because losing someone you love is really painful and i don't want to undergo such pain.I know guys would love to enjoy their independence once in a while-hanging with the boys,etc but it doesn't mean they would forget everything about you. If the person really loves you, then won't have the problem coming back.Because as the saying goes "the heart knows when it's finally home".
@harry89 (2330)
• India
7 Oct 10
Yes, but my motive of putting this question was to know that are your confident enough of your partner that he/she will come back to you if you set him/her free.
It then really depend on the person if he/she wants to come back or not, if he/she love only you then he will definitely come back. Have a nice day