When there are so many things left unsaid....

as i believed silence does not always means yes, it might also mean no, but better left unsaid to avoid a certain circumstances.... in my part, yes i have a lot of thoughts being left unsaid and kept by myself.... because i do not like arguments and confessions, because it makes me feel weak.... so, i rather choose not to voice it out...

Hi chiyosan We fell short of words...emotions remains unexpressed.. whenever we need it most ... infront of our girl or boy friends. I think it is our insecurities that restricts us to do so. We fear our words...emotions..expressions...language..tone etc..may hurt the person whom we love most.We fear to lose our beloved...coz we are not confident about the reactions of the person we love. But this is very natural and human too...human behaviour have remained unpredictable since evolution...but even then we can express issues and emotions guessing the situation and mood of the partner...its up to ur wits and ofcourse a bit of luck

There are things left unsaid and I do not know how can I begin each to tell him. The only reason why i hesitated is because we do not want us to argue. There are times that the only thing I can do is walk out because I do not want him to see me crying. I just hate it because when I try to confront him, he is either avoid it or never talk at all. It is useless when you want to speak up and you never hear anything from him. As a consequence, I will just forget it and see myself feel so hurt because of these words left unsaid.

As far as I go until now, I am trying to be as open as possible. It's hard sometimes, but it's better. Pressured heard will be more dangerous problem in the future. So, I better tell everything honestly, again even though it's hard.

yeah there are things that its better unsaid than it causes pain! like in my case, me and my ex boyfriend broke up with a lot of things are not fixed and clear, until now we dont even talk, text as in nothing. it seems that we dont know each other. maybe he chooses to be like this so that there will be no words will come out that can hurt to both of us. but in my side, i want to speak, i have a lot of things to tell him, as in super a lot. but those are left unsaid.

silence is more painful especially when nothing is clear on the relationship.i was in the same situation before but I was overcome by fear that I may be hurt so I thought of keeping everything for myself...but as time goes by I realized that I was never happy with that.I need to say the trith and to tell the truth or else I will be forever miserable...How can I move on if I dont know where to start over....words are powerful to hurt especially if its the word of truth but truth will set us free...no communication barrier could evenmore painful than being told honestly and will be given time to brace and reinforce yourself...

Some words are better left unsaid. But when it comes to relationship, both of you should be open to each other.It is better to tell it to him before it's too late.. Better to tell everything to him.

There will always be things that bother me when it comes to our relationship. It's somewhat open, one could say; I stay exclusive to him and I let him go about life as he pleases, and I allow him to see other women. He's only seen one girl, who is a friend of ours, but she refuses to go too far with him. I constantly tell them I'm fine with it, but sometimes, when it involves someone you know, it makes things awkward between them and you. I've tried expressing these feelings, but when I decide to talk about it I'm at a loss of words. It doesn't bother me as much as it used to, but I still wish I was able to voice my concerns.