be a good daughter
By Tina
@walkingcat (34)
China
October 6, 2010 11:44pm CST
well, I thought it was a new topic have been discussed. This National day I went back home and had good days there. Mom's neighbour sisters wondered why I went so far away from my parents? However, I really like the city I am working now. But I also understand my mother and father sometimes feel lonely and boring because they moved there less than 6 months. They are really not familar with there and there people. I know my parents will be happy as long as I feel happy wherever I am. But if I'd better to consider about searching new job in parents' city or just work hard in order to take them with me as soon as possible? It's really a little confused.
2 responses
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 10
Hi,
Although you are staying in another different town from your
parents, you can always pay them a visit when you are free and if you
really worry they feel lonely, why don't you ask them to move to the
same town with you and stay with you together.
You guys can takecare of each other and the most important is
you have chance to spent more time with your parents.
I have been staying away from my parents for the past 15 years,
I have learnt to be independent. Of course, I miss my parents alot and I
will pay them a visit once a year.
@walkingcat (34)
• China
15 Oct 10
Thanks for your comments too, and also sorry for dalay reply~ Yes, this half year since I worked here, I have come back home 3 times. Because I always felt my parents worried about me and my first job, and I also really miss them than when I studied in school. They stay the same town with my brother, but he is too busy to have enough time to visit them:( Maybe future, before long, I could have enough money take parents here and live together. At least, they could come by and have a visit any time they would like to~
@jypsyjulia (912)
• United States
7 Oct 10
I think that you should stay where ever suits you best. For the longest time I thought that my parents would be lonely or sad with me gone, but the truth is they're perfectly happy together and actually love the alone time. My parents were married before they had me. Their history goes longer than my life ;) So I wouldn't worry. Just be sure to keep in contact with them :) I call my mom about every other day!
@walkingcat (34)
• China
15 Oct 10
Thanks for your comments, and sorry for so long time not reply, because I am really not used to login and check mylot. You know your point is great. I also thought parents always feel happy if child were happy. We also contact often, even if we are not call each other every other day:) Yes, I thought maybe you're right, they will adapt and make their live enriched and corlourful. I also should work hard here and some day I could take them visit and have a pleasure trip here~
