to whom you will tell ?
By pollydhuca
@pollydhuca (227)
Indonesia
October 7, 2010 1:14am CST
when it gets difficult issues to be told, we usually fee reluctant to talk to others, but when we find someone who can be trusted and might be able to help us.
when i got a problem i usually talk with my close friends first, then ask for opinions or suggestion for the solutions . . . if immediately talked to my parents sometimes feel ashamed or affraid to add a burden on their minds. i will discuss with them if the problem is resolved or worse . . .
what about you if the occur or befall you ?
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4 responses
@lovelyaissa (12)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
i usually tell my problem to my friensd priest, and from there he would encourage me to tell and ask for comfort and advice from my parents. It's great to have someone who would lead you to the right way and would always remind you that the right person who could understand you the most is your family.
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@artnoble123 (198)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
you right, the people who cared for you the most is your family. However, in my case if I faced with a problem I speak with my close friend and ask for advice but often I only used it as a last resort. I don't like bothering people of problems I face for they too has their own and I don't want to add.
Good for you that you have a friend priest.Priest take a vow of confidentially so you can have sort of confidence he wont share what you confide.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Most often, when something is troubling me, if it involves the family, I would probably mention that with them since I think they would have better ideas, considering that they too are involved in the dilemma.
Other times, when I just have problems of my own, say what do I really want to buy or so on, I just keep it to myself. I really don't try to ask friends for their opinion about how to spend my money. Sometimes, friends would ask me for advice but, I rarely do that with them.. not that I don't need any.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
I rarely share stories about the problems I'm facing. Not that I'm able to finish it, but until now, I have not found anyone who I think can keep a secret.
I always try to keep my problems in lonely
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
I rarely share stories about the problems I'm facing. Not that I'm able to finish it, but until now, I have not found anyone who I think can keep a secret.
I always try to keep my problems in lonely
