ToO mAnY PrObLeMs?
By SJandogA
@SJandogA (20)
October 7, 2010 8:39pm CST
Hi! Have you ever thought of how many problems you have?
And sometimes it leads you to temptation or giving up?
Today I have lots of problems and I'm kinda having a hard time controlling myself in being patient.
I really want to panic and just kill myself, but I know that I must not let my emotions take me. I have to be positive and just take a deep breathe and think things over and let others give me an advice.
But for every problem that I have to face, the best part about it is friends and love ones will never leave you with tears on your face.
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18 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 10
I know how many problems I have at the moment, and I still dunno how many more problems coming tomorrow, or next week, or next month. But I try to not give at all because I don't like the idea of ending my life just because of it. I still have a long journey and there are many things in life I really want to do in the future.
I'm really sorry to hear that you are having a hard time at the moment, but life is not only about having problems. Be strong and enjoy what ever you have right now. Think carefully and solve the problems one by one, if you mix them all then of course you get panic, frustrated, and lost your patient. Try not to count the total of your problems too because that will not help you to calm down :). Good luck and have a nice day.
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Oct 10
[b]First thanks for starting a topic like this. Problems, why it is coming to us? n why does god allows a problem in our life. Because, he think only we can solve this problem in a proper manner. Thats why he allows problems.
N the next thing is, too many problems. Again, if you think you are getting too many problems, just think that you are the most powerful person in the world. Because, only the trees that have fruits will get many beats with stones.[/b]
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
9 Oct 10
OK. Let's think for a moment. Hmmm??? Didn't all those past problems work out somehow???? They always do somehow. We all have the power to choose what we deem important in this world. Wouldn't you say those wonderful friends are way more important than a few pesky problems??? Of course. Remember, you decide how important any problem might be. So I choose to smell the roses,be happy, think positive, enjoy people and friends. Though I will always have problems to overcome,who cares??? There are much better things to value.
@picjim (3002)
• India
8 Oct 10
As soon as i'm up and active i realise all the problems confronting me.But i don't let them bog me down.I make a list of all actions which i should take to complete my work and make the future better.I would only tell you not to panic and let negative emotions take control over you.Good friends and loved ones will always steer you in the right path.Think positively and work hard things will surely fall in the right place.
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
oh no, don't ever entertain the thought of ending your life... don't count your problems, count on your blessings instead. don't think too much about things that you can't handle yet. let go and the right time will come when your thoughts will be cleared and you will find the answers to your problems. don't make decisions when you feel frustrated. you might end up making the wrong choice. just keep the faith, it will get you through. and be happy always; you have your friends and family with you. goodluck! :)
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@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Hi there, first of all we all have problems. And sometimes this is not really a problem, its only a test to us. A test for our faith in God, i believe that God will not give problems if we will not capable of resolving it. Thinking of something like killing your self is a big sin so don't ever think this way again. Whatever your problem is you have your family that will help you and guide you in the right way. And ofcourse your friends they are given to you to be your companion in everything. Smile always and don't ever let this problems rules you. Have faith in God and in yourself i'm sure everything will be alright.I have my own problem too but i just smile and have faith in God, cheers
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Hello,
Problems are always there,it is just how we look each problem,whether positive or negative.
Not every problem is always bad,sometimes it give us lesson.
Remember that,there is always reason for every events that happens in our lives.
Just take time,relax,cry if you wanted to,vent out and let go of emotions.
Then,talk to yourself and write every possible reason why you were having such problem.
How it did started,what are the ways you can do to solve it.
When you are feeling down and angry,you can never think well.
You need focused when solving a problem.
Pray and asks guidance to our Lord.
When you think you are most alone,it is then you will feel that GOD loves you more than you'll ever knew.
@JNAbejero_C (62)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Life is never without a need,never without a problem,never without a difficulty,never without hurtful moments and shortcoming are not the reason to give up but a challenge to improve ourselves. And in the ocean of Life, God is our buoyant force.
@LACaldamo_C (50)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
In life problems are always there, its up to us how to drive with it dear,and how we cope up with it. Life without problem is not challenging, you will not learn. God never give us trials in life which we can't handle so just pray always because nothing is no impossible to our Almighty God. Godbless :)
@gzbilqies (18)
•
8 Oct 10
Hi,,,
Of course everyone would Sometimes I always complain why my life was not as fortunate as others. But after the friend of mine said "Do you think how many problems that befall you, think about how to solve that problem." and from there I know, actually all the problems that afflict us, it begins with afflict us, it begins with ourselves. Everyone will have a problem, problem is life, there would be no life if there is no problem
@ohbelle6c (79)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
People are born with problem. No one is born without it. You are right, and I am also experiencing that and you are not alone. Last night I feel of giving up and wanted to die but when I think of it, there's no reason to run for our problem. Instead, there's a reason why we have that problem. No matter what it is, we need to be strong and always ask for God's guidance. Don't loose hope, there's so many of us facing so many problem but they succeed. Make it as your inspiration. Good luck. :)
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
8 Oct 10
I think here are mostly person who faces many problems. I think life is the name of facing problems. And the brave person is who always stands in front of their problems and always survive with their problems and at the ends he/she surely getting succeed. I think this is the life. So always fight with your sorrow and problems and never think that you are weak and alone.
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
One cannot help it when there are so many trials that comes across during one time. A person can only handle stress at a certain point. I rely on God, friends, relatives to cross over these problems. Although sometimes I know its just a phase and soon it will be over sometimes I feel so overwhelmed. I also feel panic episoded. I pray all the more. One cannot keep all these worries to oneself. We are not an island, we need others. I often focus on things that would make me overcome them. Since they are mostly connected with fears that I may have.
@Naga212Geni (9)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 10
In this life, surely there is always a problem. Because with the problem of people will be demand thinking to solve problems. If nothing is wrong, then the world will not experience any movement. So take it easy if you have a problem. Problem came to be faced, in thought and in solve. Do not be afraid of the problem
@ismailzuper (38)
• Medan, Indonesia
8 Oct 10
Problems, we have to face them, solve them, not run away from the problems. If you run away from the problems, the problems become more taugher. Every problem has its unique solution, you just need the time to think and control. take time to control and think, and the best way will come, and you're the taugher one. If you don't find the solution, share to others, especially your friends, they will provide some solutions for you.