How long do you need to recover from being lovelorn?

@yeyelee (370)
China
October 8, 2010 2:53am CST
I loved a Ms.Wrong.These days i was trying my best to forget her,forget her ruthlessness.She could not make use of me anymore.But it's a painful process.I wanna end this bad situation as soon as possible,i feel sad and heartbroken now and then.Every morning when i was rinsing my mouth,a great deal of problems would flash in my head,why,why,why.Dear friends,how long do you need to recover from being lovelorn and then start a new relationship?And could share some stories with me?
2 responses
• Portugal
8 Oct 10
jie^^ there is not a specific time^^ i also loved wrong guys before and took time to forget that. but if you put in your head that she is a wrong girl, and doesnt deserve your love and that the one for you is still out there^^ it will help you^^ do you really want to be all your life sad and crying bcs of a girl that was so bad to you? sure not^^ so just forget about her^^ that girl was a fake pretending she loved you when loved someone else. she used you. she doesnt deserve your feelings^^ so is time now to forget she exists^^ and anytime im here for you^^ and we can sing again for you to relax if you want to :)
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@yeyelee (370)
• China
9 Oct 10
Thank you.I'll forget her as soon as possible.I love your voice,so sweet,and hope we could sing together again,i'll sing aimei to you.
• Portugal
12 Oct 10
yes im sure you can forget her^^ you deserve to be happy^^ with a sweet caring girl that really likes you^^ thanks so muchy for love my voice^^ yours is sweet also^^ and you sing very well i love chinese ahah you will sing ai mei?^^ so cutie^^ sure you can sing anytime^^ just didnt see you online lately^^ wish see you soon then so we can sing together again^^
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 Oct 10
this only depends on you :). first of all you have to wish to forget her...for real. stop asking yourself question: why this happend? why that and so on :)...it simply happened and the rest doesn;t matter. you need to stop thinking about it and try to concentrate on doing things that you like. i know it's eas to day but hard to do (i'm going trough the same situation), but you have to do it. take my advice and you'll forget her soon
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@yeyelee (370)
• China
13 Oct 10
Thank you,swissheart.I'll take your advice and forget her as soon as possible. These days i was trying to concentrate my life on other things,such as experiments and friends.But i would think of her now and then,maybe i need time to cure mu heart.Don't worry,there is no denying that i'll forget her.Trust me.And hope you could forget the similar person too.Thanks a lot.