Do you believe "Love is Blind" ?
By fey008
@fey008 (295)
Indonesia
22 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 10
Well it happens everyday and everywhere without controls so yes I believe love is really blind. We never knew who we will fall in love with, when we stop loving the person and it is the same for out friends and other people. Only love itself who will tells us when the other love is coming and we accept it without hesitation when there is so much differences between you and the person that causing a lot of arguments at the end of the day. But I guess, that's the nature of life and we just have to live with it
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
8 Oct 10
I most definitely believe that love is blind. How else would some of us make the bad decisions we do if it wasnt blind. Sometimes we get so caught up in the fairytale side of things, we become blind to the important things. Like whether or not he/she has a job. Are they mentally/emotionally stable. Things like that. Sometimes we lose site of our faculties and overlook these things. It has to be because we are blinded by love. There IS NO other option. lol Happy MyLotting dl
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
8 Oct 10
YES, love is blind!!! When you truly fall in love with someone, you become incapable of seeing their faults...simply because you see soooo much of the good side of them that the negative side no longer matters!!! Also, looks no longer matter!!! You can fall in love with the ugliest person on the face of the earth & to you they are beautiful because you can see into their heart!!!
Love may not cause blindness in the literal definition of the word; however, it can cause you to not actually see!!!!
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@harry89 (2330)
• India
8 Oct 10
Yes, i do believe that love is blind. The example is that you can even fell in love with a women who is much older than you, it shows that love sees nothing.. You just care about your feelings not how old she is, how she looks or what she has done, that's untill as long as you love her.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
9 Oct 10
It may seem that way to some people. However a closer look will explain it better.
If we appear to be blind it could be because the other person was not presenting themsleves as they are. They could have been hiding certain things about themselves so we could not see negitive things about them. When these negitive things come out we appear to have been blind. When actually we were blindfolded.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
love is not blind i guess but lovers are. sometimes we tend to forget or we are on denial in accepting the truth.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
I don't believed love is blind. I do believed lovers are blind not the love. Because if we accept that love is blind. It is not correct because love never know what is right and what is wrong...
Those people are engage in love affair are blind not the love that they had in their heart...
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
9 Oct 10
First of all I don't believe in love. I think this word is overrated, is used too much and lost it's importance. I believe that the only person who we are capable of loving, is ourselves and no other person in this world. What is called love is blind has to be related to the good chemistry between people, the physical attraction which is stronger than our brains. Something that we get from the other is too good to let is go and then we act like fools and don't see obvious facts. But it is certainly not love which makes us doing this. Or at least this is what I think.
@MTElemiaC (65)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
..hOnestly I dOn't believe thatr lOve is really bLind..sOme love is nOt blind..most of them are believing in Love is bLind..it depends on hOw yOu cOntrol it. bUt for me, lOve is nOt bLind.
@arrebaldeB (32)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
Yeah!i do believe that love is blind! if you really love someone you didn't look at his/her imperfections...right? ...i have proven it to myself that love is blind!!
@wollivierre (687)
• United States
27 Oct 10
yes i think that love happens to you if you want it to or not and, you will love some people you don't want to love. that just how love is i guess.
@paige4evr (118)
• Estonia
9 Oct 10
I think it depends a lot. Definately I think it's not true for most people's relationships. I think it's rare to have a truly blind love. That is a truly unconditional love. Most of the time we love people because of certain reasons rather than accepting them no matter what. It's rare but I believe it exists, like in those couples that have been together nearly forever and still love each other a lot. I think their love is truly blind.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 10
I don't believe it either. Love is not blind, but sometimes we are blinded by love.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Oct 10
Usually when we are in love, it is the happiest time in our lives. We don't always see the world as clearly as we should. Love can blind us because we can only see each other. Love can also awaken what has been sleeping inside us as well. I would rather be blinded by love than to never experience it at all.
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
9 Oct 10
Yes. I really believe that love is blind. If you are in love-- no questions ask. You don't have to ask questions. You don't have to doubt. Even your wife or your husband is a killer.. ha ha ha ha.. you are still protecting the one you love-- because "love is blind"... ha ha ha... On movie like a woman who is in love with the vampire who kills people-- but still the woman loves him more than anything in the whole world-- well, that is what we call "love is blind".
"What are you doing? Your are in love with the vampire? He kills people!"
"I don't care. I love him so much..."-- ha ha (^_^)
@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes man, you are very true. Love cannot be blind and it is in fact not blind at all.
If you have observed that we fall in love only when we are attracted to someone. Now, this attraction may be for anything, it can be beauty, attitude, money, behavior, sexiness, etc. Anything it can be, but there is something which we like, and gradually we fall in love due to that thing. My simple question is will you(the one who is reading)a person whom you do not like, but that person loves you. No, actually, I will say. Love is an eternal feeling. It cannot come by force, it comes by itself, if you have got liking for atleast some or the other thing in the opposite person. Hence, I believe, at the same time, stand Strong on my point, that, "Love" is not blind.