if ur bf/gf is a virgin and lose virginity with u would u feel special?^^

Sure. One of my motto is 'the tighter, the better'. But it all still depends on the girl's personality whether i'm gonna take her seriously or not.

I would if I knew it meant something to him.. but I'd hate to take away the virginity of someone who is just a random one nighter.

Ya it makes the relationship more stronger and sweeter when you come to know that the partner was virgin .In my case,mine was an arranged marriage and when on the second day of our marriage my virginity broke,my husband was just ecstatic.He said that he was blessed to have a girl like me and these words still echo in my mind and i feel proud of myself.

Hi dear, This is a time many have twin opinion on the same. For few people, they don't care about virginity, saying that it is difficult to maintain such purity for all girls or boys upto the time of marriage. All have feelings and occasions that may go through with circumstances. For many, they need before marriage, for many simply want to taste the difference by participating in this kind of things. Whatever it is, once the concept is gone, there is no more chance to claim for it. Also, once is is happened, they don't care. That is the reason for many argue that I am not so particular in this. When I was in the college, one of our English lecturer used to say that, guys, if you want to marry a virgin girl, you adopt a child and take care of her from the age of 6. The reason behind may be anything, but the reason to say in such a way is our prevailing society and the life how we maintaining only. However, I think there may be at least 10% still want to be virgin till their marriage. Best regards,' thank-s

for me i don't care about virgin or not virgin at all,I love my GF too much and if she was or not virgin i would love him the same,she is very special for me........

Yes, ofcourse I feel happy and special for that.

I don't think guys virginity is a big deal to argue. Because most of its kind are girl being involved and men want virgin as their partner...and they want being first to score of their virgin girlfriend... But on the part of men...there is not other argument in that effect... Have a nice day!

Only if I was married to the woman first. Otherwise, it's meaningless. Might as well be an unpaid hooker.

Well its a special thing and If you get one like that, feel urs self lucky and special, and if you get that then also fell Lucky and specal . atleast your are enjoying yourself with Some one. have a Nice day

its special actually. and also you will feel good about it,i mean when you disvirgin someone.

yea you're right it's special...but not for long. most of the times, at a certain momen that relationship will end, so if you loved that person and you lost you virginity to him/her...it will hurt like hell, especially if it ends badly ( from my own experience). I would feel special if I was the first in someone's live, because he choosed to do it with me

lol... nice question :P yh I will surely feel it special... ;)

i think yes!!! but i need to be married with him before he get my virginity..

i care about virginity, but i more care about her heart. I hope my english right ^_^ coz i'm Indonesian.

If memory serves me right...it sure was a turn on. Not often i run into male virgins. Especially at my age 54. Id be a pervert or something seriously wrong with the male. I mean if a male made it to my age and be a virgin.

When I met my fiance, he was still a virgin and I wasn't, and honestly I don't think this is bad, so the first time we had an intimate night, he was nervous and he did not have any experience which was quite awkward to teach him as well, so we did not really have a pleasant night. But as for him, he mentioned to me once that he loves me not because I was a virgin or not, but because for who and what I am, he said I'm special enough if I have a good personality and loving. He already cares for me so much even before the first time we made love, so me not being a virgin wasn't a big matter for him anymore. As long as I know how to please him then I'm proud of myself Have a nice day to you

One of the reminders which I never forget from my favorite teacher in high school was "a person's virginity is his or her most precious gift to his or her future spouse". I grew up from a conservative family and until now, specially now that my family is aware that I am in a relationship with my boyfriend, my mother never fails to remind me to be responsible and never to give up my virginity, not until I get married. Fortunately, my boyfriend and I are both innocent of love-making, I mean both of us have never experienced it yet. Yes, I would really feel special if he would grant me such gift. It has always been my principle to give up mine to the one I truly love most and I would do my best to engage in such intimacy right after my wedding.

Well me and my girlfriend both are virgin and we are some what young for this but we would surely feel special because we found each other and we love each other so its good that we have planned properly and we have found the person who is just ment for us and who is not yet used by anyone..

many people have different views about this. i think it is good to lose your virginity with someone you love but at partys etc i wouldn't worry about it :p haha

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