Guy or Girl...which is better to be friend with?

for me any gender will do... as long as you trust each other share each other and protect your friendship to last...

at guy it doesnt matter how we feel it goed like this "hey, how are you doing" "hey... yeah my wife is angry, and i feel like a ***** ** *****" (sometimes that's the same as saying "good :P) "so have you seen a good movie?" XD like almost all my friends are guys, but i'd like to have a few girls as friends cuz. you actually talk about other things. but the worst thing is if a friend starts to ignore you and become the opposite of a friend..

For me, although I am a girl, I really prefer being friends with guys. Even before I realized that, I didn't realize that almost all my close friends are guys. I think because women are overly dramatic, and likes to make fuss about the littlest of things. Even though I am a girl, I am not like that, I act boyish in a good way, I really am not fond of the dramas girls really like to undergo in. But don't get me wrong, I am not a lesbian, I have a boyfriend of 3years hehe, also, I am not a b***h that likes to hang around guys. It is just that I feel comfortable with guy friends, I relate to them more compared to my female friends.

Depends on your personality. Since I went to an all girls' school until high school, all of my friends up til then were all girls, but when I became a college student I started to befriend more and more guys. I think that I'm much closer to my guy friends, because I've always been very boyish, but that doesn't make them better friends than my girl friends. Yes, I spend more time with my guy friends now and maybe I even have more fun than them, but they don't understand me the way my girl friends do, and my girl friends have known me for longer, so I guess my guy and girl friends are pretty even :p

Guys are generally much better friends than girls when you are a girl like me. Don't get me wrong since I got both kind of friendships(GUYS and GALS). I appreciate them for different reasons. When I am talking about serious matters I go for girls to talked with and exchange views although some can't avoid telling others about what I told them which the guys won't divulge if I asked for their help. Just that, most guys are uneasy when it comes to what they label as "girl talk" as oppose to what's acceptable to them as topics of discussion. I love guys when they appreciate me on my appearance because there will be no catty remarks on my back. Some girls don't utter these remarks but most do. Anyways I love em both for their support.

i like to be friends with guys than girls.coz for me they understand you more and there are no catfights.

Dear friend, I feel being friend do not have much with gender. If they keep a good relationship it is well and good. But at times some friendships turn to more bitter when it breaks especailly with girls. Moslty friendly relationships seem not to last long especailly with girls after marriage.

I guess it's good to have a guy friend and a girl friend. Guys and girls can have different ideas in every situation which are really helpful. I don't really have close guy friends but it's also nice to chat with them once in a while and sometimes it also depends on the topic of the conversation. Some topics may be more comfortable for guys to answer and some topics are not.

I think naturally we are drawn to the same gender for friendship because it's not awkward. You can share easily with someone of the same gender. But personally. it's always nice to have friends from both gender. It widens your network and you learn too.

I want to have more guy friends because they are generous and don't like gossiping. In my experience with guy friends as female is that they love to talk about funny things and not about other people. Just try to find friend guys who respects you tho and not the perv and bad influence. But then I have girl friends too but not that many, i only friend the true one...

In my experience, I have lasting friendship with my girl friends maybe because I'm a girl too and yes we have a lot in common. We've been friends since we were in preschool until now that we are graduating college students. I do have friends who are guys but we are not really that close. I guess both gender are better to make friends with. What matters most is that despite the differences in your personalities, you still enjoy each others company. It is only in your good and trusted friends whom you can share your deepest darkest secrets and the darkest days of life. Friendship is a gift. No matter how short life is, let's grab every moment to make friends with everyone we meet each day. God bless!

hi SimpleBB, it depends. it does not have to do with a gender, what is more important is you are true of being friend to anybody and you're comfortable with him/her. happy mylotting. :-)

A friend cannot be chosen based on gender. A good friend is one who is loving and caring. friendship does not mean that he is the best or she is the best

i prefer guys because the girls around me arent so nice :( and i dont have much to discuss with girls so that makes it a little bit boring