How to handle pressures in life?
By greenwbird
@greenwbird (227)
China
October 9, 2010 11:48pm CST
The price of house is increasing crazily,both of me and my bf are born in common family,we all have brothers and sisters,so it is a tough problem to buy a house as a home by ourselves!Then,after graduation,we are seperated in different cities because of working,it is so difficult to find a job that we can't be together!the realistic is so awful for 80',what should we do?if you have the same aggravation in your country?
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5 responses
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
10 Oct 10
Dear friend,
Obstacles and various issues comes in life, but bold and attain will power to face these in life. Moreover be confident to tackle all those problems that come in life. I feel face all these, there are people who are worser than people like you, still they live life here. If you are graduates I hope you could get a job, there are people who do not even have a job still they live their life.
@greenwbird (227)
• China
10 Oct 10
Thanks,I will chose brave to face these obstacles!I won't give up my lover because of these pressures!now i am studying hard to improve myself,i think i can find a job near to my bf sooner or later!
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
I also come from a big family of seven.
But all of us do have our own homes.
It is a manner of hardwork and perseverance.
@greenwbird (227)
• China
15 Oct 10
yea,i think you are right,but chance is also very important,good lucky is also essencial!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 10
Be patient, live modestly and life will turn for the better. It is the same everywhere. Cost of living has increased tremendously especially the prices of properties. What you can do is to work hard and earn the down payment of a house. In the meantime just rent a simple house as long as there is a roof over your head.
@greenwbird (227)
• China
15 Oct 10
I understand what you mean,life will give you what you want that is equal to what you have give!
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
Hi greenwbird, it is worse in my country. A lot of people have to live away from their family and work abroad because there are no jobs that could sustain their needs. We are hoping that it'll change and I hope you'll find a way to overcome your pressures too.
@greenwbird (227)
• China
15 Oct 10
Sorry to hear that,I will learn to satisfy to what i have now,and work hard to change the recent situation!
@qianyun6 (2066)
• China
10 Oct 10
Hi, greenwbird!
I'm Chinese too and I know the situation. House is the pain of most young people in our country. What we can do is only working hard for money. Maybe it's advisable to leave tier one cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. The price of houses is not so crazy in tier two cities so we can make a easier life.
@greenwbird (227)
• China
15 Oct 10
I am in a northern city of china,so pressure is not as big as some big cities!
