love& pain

I think that when it comes to love, there's always pain. It goes hand in hand. It wouldn't be love when there's no pain involved.

Love and pain are two words that may come together as one. True love is not always have its happy ending as they say. And you cannot find true love nor felt what true love is if you never experience pain when you are in love. But sometimes we felt pain when we choose the wrong person at the wrong time. Still the bottom line is why don't you take the risk of falling in love even if there is accompanying pain with because with that you can feel the essence of what really true love is. :-)

So true, so true. Although I do admit that I've been on the guilty side of playing with emotions before. *squeep* *hides*

It is true, love is a pain. And it is a pain when we give our endless love to someone who does not appreciate us, and also to us who allow someone who only wants to flirt with us to get too close to us and make us think everything is serious even though we clearly know they are just looking for some experience. To me, I never allow anyone who only wants an experience to have a relationship with me. That is why I'm very picky and not many flirty person loves going out with me for drinking or dancing or whatever because I'm too focusing on not getting myself hurt by unnecessary person and situation. And I'm happy to live without disturbance and heartache.

The sooner pull out and complete the separation, then you will be more happy. Had broken, but still remain good communication with, not many couples can do it. Even if you can, usually takes time to be short does not heal wounds. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it is better to leave the glass is broken than hurt yourself by uniting fractions. Ending a relationship certainly painful, even when you know the relationship was no longer healthy. If the end be the best decision, then let go of those we love is not hard work. Next, let time will heal. There is ways to heal the hurt from a breakup, such as leaked Shine. 1. Control your attitude To continue day after day without it, sometimes you need to cut all forms of contacts. It is difficult, but controlling attitude, discover strengths, not responding when he was contacted, or no longer contact him is the best alternative to overcome pain from broken hearts. You alone are entitled to determine the direction of your life. There is a saying that says "Listen to what he says and believes what he is doing" It has been more than a year you break up, but the ex still says he loves you every time you call. You want him back fully, but he said he could not. If the former said that could not be with you, believe him. He may say love, but if he really wanted to be with you, then he will be with you. If he says no more love, focus on ourselves to continue living. You have to accept what he says and move on. The sooner pull out and complete the separation, then you will be more happy. Stop focusing on the problem and what you can not do ! Maybe you do not want to be honest about the break on a friend and could not understand why you can not heal the hurt. So now, what can you do? The first step, stacking and write down your goals in the short and long term. Then, go into each destination (eg, "feel more happy and confident about my future") and write three ways to achieve a goal (for example, "spend time with people who think positive and optimistic.") Stop focusing on the thought, "I can not" and "I want". Instead, move forward in the direction of things you can accomplish. 2. Fixed notice yourself Many women are confused about how to behave with his former lover, especially if the breakup was not final. To overcome the obsessive thoughts about the former, you have to keep in touch with yourself healthy, happy, and happy. That is, fill yourself with what you like, keep in touch with friends and family, write down your thoughts and feelings are actually in a diary. This also means that no longer exists a sense of fear, anxiety, or negative feelings. 3. Keep the long-term life goals Answer the following questions in a logical and rational, whether the lover is a healthy choice for your life? What is the purpose of his life in accordance with long-term goals of your life? Does he seek continuity relationship? Think of your relationship with a cool head and calm mind. Allow yourself to feel all the emotion and longing out of control, but do not get lost in the tidal wave of love without hope. May help ^_^