what do you think about the second chance relationship

Indonesia
October 10, 2010 6:05am CST
Hi guys... I want ask your opinion about the second chance relationships, do you give him/her the second chance in your relationship after he/she makes you disappointed ?
8 responses
@Karunvig (714)
• India
10 Oct 10
there is no second chance in relationship... for second tym relations the name changes to ADJUSTMENT and there is no adjustment in love
@Karunvig (714)
• India
12 Oct 10
very tough, I have seen many of frnds mine exp. as well.. very tough to get this dear. Second tym relation is just like A joint in the thread... which will b visible always...
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
so no chance to come back for build the second relationship in love
@marj22 (73)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
yes, because i believe that everyone should be given a second chance to correct the mistakes that they've done.
• Indonesia
13 Oct 10
but i think your way to love him not same like you loved him before
@swtpareek (650)
• United States
10 Oct 10
I guess in my case it would really depend on what did he do to disappoint me. If that's a small thing then I will just be mad at him for a couple of minutes then everything would resolve. But if there is something serious then I would sit out and talk about it with him and try to straighten things out. In any case I would be back with him so ya I would give him a second chance.
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
but can you love him like you love before ?
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
If I still love the person I'll give him a second chance. But if he's not worth it and I don't feel anything for him anymore for sure there will be no more second chance. You have to be careful also in giving second chance because he might do the same mistake again.
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
so for the second chance.. you try with your feeling, if there is no feeling again so you will break up with him ?
• Portugal
10 Oct 10
yes i give^^ i always give a second chance^^ we all make mistakes and if we love someone we can forgive them. even if is hard. at least if we do that we will know that we did all for the relationship to work^^ it just shows that we really love that person and wont give up easy. if you dont give a second chance you will be thinking what you could had done and that maybe it could had work. so if you give a second chance you wont have any regrets^^ and maybe you can be happy with person you love^^ sometimes people change if they receive a second chance^^ so yes we all should give it^^
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
can you love him like you do before ?? for me, there's not same feeling again
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
if i love him, why not?i'd just be more careful so that i wont get hurt again.
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
so you can give him second chance... how the way you love him with the same feeling or not ?
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
10 Oct 10
Yes i will. but this time i will be more careful. the bitter experience may teach me good lessons to avoid problems. yes. that is a good idea and a possitive manner to build up relations.
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
sometimes when you give him the second chance and you will be more careful but when you can't love him like you love him before
• Bulgaria
10 Oct 10
I think its a good opportunity.I always give a second chance because i dont want to hurt myself so much.But the main feelings in love are not the same.Always have one piont in my mind.
• Indonesia
11 Oct 10
if you give a second chance because don't want to hurt myself so much, so you do that because you afraid to hurt so much but how can you build the relation when your feelings in love are not the same