how important does relationship play role in your life?.........
By ngocmai
@ngocmai (4)
Vietnam
October 10, 2010 9:20am CST
_well,do u have a good relationship with people around you? and how important relationship play role in your life?Can you give your own definition about relationship?....For me,the relationship play role extremely important in the life that is the thing I've just recognized after the during time experiencing failure,misery,depresstion...with noone beside share these feelings which corrode not only my body but also my mind..Talking about relationship ,we will think about these relations such as friendship,social relationship ,family relationship,or love...I seemed to be imbalanced in my life because I didn't have any moral support after the death of my grandpa...i felt lack of love..really..she is the only one can give me motivation to overcome obstacles on every step on life...My parent they devorced when I was a little child..I was allowed to live with my dad cos he has ability to earn money to support my study..from that I live with my dad and my grandma..My dad,even though he loves me but he could take care me well as mom could do...and he didn't care much these feelings of her daughter at the growing-up age...when my grandma passed away,I lived with my uncle and his wife..and also my dad ..in the same house..my dad went out alot..drank too much...and my uncle's wiis the one gave me the most pressure...misery..I don't know how to express my situation at this time..I was so lonely...cos i'm timid shy girl..so I didn't have many friends ,even one for close..I was disappoited ...I was eager to be love..Anyway ,everything passed away..i'm 21 now..and try my best to get a better life..
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13 responses
@darius199108 (66)
• Lithuania
11 Oct 10
I don't have any fiends so I think relacionships don't play important role in my life.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Having friends is a good thing to do. Friends love us like a relative as well. Only that sometimes there are friends that not so good but you can find good friends too. So stay with those good and avoid the bad ones. Relationship is very important as it brings joys to our lives, the good relationship, I mean. When you have good relationship to your friends you won't be shy in sharing them your ups and downs and you'll find you're there for each other. Having good relationship with your neighbors will help you sleep at peace or live at peace, in any case you'll have your neighbors support. Don't lose hope, now that you're getting matured you'll learn how to get along with friends. Don't get disappointed just pray to God to guide you and give you people to share you love and happiness.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
my relationship with my family makes me a better person without them i am not here.they play a big part of my life because my parents thought me how to lived and strive for living in many ways.on the other hand my hubby makes my world go round in a moment his my inspiration,my best friend and my lover makes my life happy because of him i can say my life is colorful.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
10 Oct 10
I think relationship always plays an important role in every person’s life. Because every person in this world is connect to another person in many types of relationship. So I think relationship always plays an important role in our life. I think sometimes many relationship give us help when we really needed for help. And one kind of relationship is friendship. Because friendship is the very good relationship. And only friends give us help when we really needed.
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@pkdaftari (68)
• India
11 Oct 10
Long term relationship depend of love, trust, dependability etc. However, all relationships have its own limitations especially when financial matters are concerned.
If you wish to care and nurture your relationship, then do not lend or borrow money with them because in most cases such transactions not only spoils the relationships but leaves such bitter memories and experiences, that you can not forget in your lifetime and sometimes it is fatal.
Learn to be strong enough to face the world alone. Relationships are just a Bonus.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Oct 10
I think relations pay a great role in our life. I think we should show the love for our parents and our friends. When show our love we will also get their love. I think when we really love others we will also love ourselves. I think God give us our life to to love others and to love ourselves and to make ourselves and others happy.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Having friends is a good thing to do. Friends love us like a relative as well. Only that sometimes there are friends that not so good but you can find good friends too. So stay with those good and avoid the bad ones. Relationship is very important as it brings joys to our lives, the good relationship, I mean. When you have good relationship to your friends you won't be shy in sharing them your ups and downs and you'll find you're there for each other. Having good relationship with your neighbors will help you sleep at peace or live at peace, in any case you'll have your neighbors support. Don't lose hope, now that you're getting matured you'll learn how to get along with friends. Don't get disappointed just pray to God to guide you and give you people to share you love and happiness.
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@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
10 Oct 10
Your life had a lot of downs in it, but my friend do believe in yourself, and make the most out of every little thing you can. Remember that there are other people who are worse than you due to health problems, or no parents at all. Now that you are old enough you can find someone who can love you truly. Make sure you make the right decision when choosing your future love. You need to feel loved and secure and to feel cared for well. There must be someone out there who can make you feel that way and I really and honestly wish you all the best in life - just remember treasure every moment, treasure yourself and your life and trust in God's love.
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@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
11 Oct 10
hello, glad to hear this questions. i know that its good for you for these relationship. but i think the best relationship is our parents. we are their best friends. so wife is too. but no matter what happen our parents will love us forever. so cherish what you have . every relashionship is important .
thank you .
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Hello there,
Relationship, no matter how intense or lax, plays a very important role to complete our being. With our dealing to other people, we will find our sense of belonging and boost our self esteem. The love, care and attention that we receive from other people around us, makes us what we are now and in the future.
As for you, you are so young. At your age, you are so fragile at this moment. Those trials and failures that you have experienced were just a part of life. They are not there to bring you down but to make you strong. Always bear in mind that you would encounter problems every now and then. Do not give up no matter what. Just think that the hardship are just preparing you to have a greater and stronger foundation to surpass bigger and more complicated situations that may go on your way.
You are a lady and searching, aching for love. You will meet different people who'll make you feel that you can lean on them but don't forget, none of them will serve as your pillow and blanket. You have to love yourself more. Don't get your self busy and looking for someone to love but your love to your self will lead you to someone who value and love you more than anything else.
Take care always and keep safe... ^_^
@ceasarette (145)
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11 Oct 10
I've learned to value my relationship with other people because in a way, it helps me go through life. I like to say that I have a generally good relationship with other people, except for a couple things that we have no control over. What I learned so far is that relationships are important if you want them to be important. I learned to choose the relationships that I want to keep, and nurture it. I also learned that no matter how bad things get, there will always be someone in your life who will help you through it. I hope it gets better for you, ngocmai!
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@junkie10 (1)
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10 Oct 10
Sorry to hear about your feelings of failure, misery and depression but glad that it has passed. A good relationship makes life better and easier. It is better as you get to share the good times and easier because you have someone to talk things through - despite being a cliche, it is true "a problem shared is a problem halved". Good luck.
