Bitterness

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I just need to talk about this I guess. It is an ongoing anger and bitterness that seems to be consuming more and more of my thoughts. I think I am going to have to go to a counselor or something. Maybe some of you have some input that will help. My son met a girl and she almost immediately moved in with him. Altho he loved her it soon became obvious she was a very materialistic person and they had many differences. Then she became pregnant. He told her he would stand behind whatever she wanted to do. She told him she had thought about it and wanted to stay with him and have the baby. He was very happy about being a dad. She then confided to him that the year before she had gotten pregnant and given the baby up for adoption. After a few weeks, he came home and she was lying down, not feeling well. Later in the evening she told him she had an abotion that day and it was twins. He was very sad but said it was her choice. Within a few months she was pregnant again and they married and had the baby. Two years later he came home from work to the same thing...she had another abortion. A year later another daughter was born. So 6 years and two daughters later she cheated on him. Started staying out all nite and he faithfully continued to care for his children. She left the state for months at a time following her boyfriend around and never even called the girls. Last year after they had been divorced a year she moved into an apt with the boyfriend and they have a baby now. Now she acts like she has always been the "Mommie of the Year" and my son is worthless. SHe bad mouths him in front of the girls and keeps them upset. He gets his kids 1st,3rd and 5th weekends and it kills him to not have more time with them and they are daddy's girls and cry when they have to leave him. He has gone thru all the phases and is over the anger. He knows when the time is right the girls will understand and one day he will have custody so for now he ignores the games she tries to play and the insults and has quality time with his daughters. I on the other hand have serious anger when she tries to hurt my son by keeping the kids from him or talking crap about him. He pays child support faithfully and anything else they need. I have never hated anyone in my life but I have a problem with this person letting other guys babies live and saying how much she loved me and my family yet 3 of my grandbabies were aborted. Altho we have proof of the adoption and the 3 abortions she has called my son a liar and says he is making all this up. Her boyfriend doesn't know and her parents don't know. She denies it all. Even with phone records she denies that she ever abandoned the girls and went out of state. she has serious mental issues and is raising my grandbabies. 26 years old and 7 pregnancies, one given away and 3 killed. And I am so bitter and angry. I vent when she does stupid things to him and he thinks Im gonna have a breakdown because I just want to slap the high and mighty baby murderer! Any one have any input???