What part in love you dislike?

Hi kartiknaiduk, good morning. Yes i am possessive about my husband. But i am not too possessive about him, because he has his own work, since he is a good person he loves a lot, i know about him much since he treat me like i am the only one for him. So i don't have any much restrictions about him, i never point-out him, why you do like this or like that. I will advice him that's it. I too feel some times telling repeatedly about something will get irritation. But as a woman/wife i can say i am possessive because i want my husband should be top of anything, not to involve any bad attitudes should not get bad remarks in his life. He has a good name in my family, in and around so i want he should have that good name through out his/my life. I feel possessiveness is also a part of love. If you love your partner, having faith and trust then there is no place for over possessiveness i feel that is not possessiveness that is like misunderstanding / no trust / no faith / no believe / doubt on him/her. (which never gives you happiness rather make your life mess) Have a good day.

Well,too much is not good in some aspects. Being possessive is given when it comes to love but too much may ruined the relationship too. What i hate in a relationship(love) is when i feel treated as second best. I want to feel my importance always,becoz i love that way. When i loved someone,i gave my everything,my best...i never had any reservation,i did it all the way in the name of love.

I agree with you. It is healthy to be partly dependent on each other but when one partner is totally dependent on the other to the extent that it becomes controlling it spoils the relationship because it invades the other person’s freedom and space which we all need no matter how much we love the other person. It is the one thing I hate in relationships, being controlled and withdrawn ‘permission’ to live as I please.

I don't like to be controlled in a relationship. Much as i want my bf to show me care and concern, love, but i don't want it to be too overly done. To the extend of he's sharing my life, having to report my whereabouts to him. I hate that feeling. It's a fine line between overly possessive and showing genuine concern. Many guys do it wrong, and ended up with the mindset of woman being difficult.

Being overly possessive is not love at all, that is selfishness. Real love is never selfish, real love is more understanding. There's nothing in love that i dislike because for me love is pure and kind and never selfish.

the same as you. an overprotective girlfriend is just not great to hang out. Another thing is always asking you to buy this and that. I dislike that kind of girl. When the girl understands you and she really care about you, that's the perfect gril for you

I dislike it when you fall in love, but you are unsure of the person that you have fallen in love with. When you fall in love, the "crush" part, it's great, but the hard part is when you have fallen in love with them, but they aren't exactly who you thought they would be, or they don't exactly live up to an expectation that you had for them. Love has some flaws.

Yes, I would agree that possessiveness is very suffocating in a relationship and it is something that find difficulty with. I am a person who likes to do my own thing, but I will always be loyal to my partner unless she starts acting as if she owns me, then I find myself torn between wanting out of the relationship, yet still wanting to make it work. In that past though, I hav eventually quit the relationship. I have a great relationship now though where we can be together and there's no demands or expectations.. It's taken me a lifetime to get to this though! _Derek

I think you mean "what you like and dislike about a relationship"?... For me I don't like a women that is love for money and not consider love as a foundation of a strong relationship...

I don't know what part i dislike. But i can say what i like. I like the other part can be gentle to me. He should always miss me, give me any sweet calls or short messages,etc.Anyway,he should do something to let me know that i am in his heart.HaHa. I guess he may feel tired to these requirements.

in relationship you should love each other.. give and take.. never be a controlling partner.. the part in a relationship that i hate the most is that when you know that he/she is cheating on you and you still allow it just because of the fact that you love him.. isn't it stupid?..

I dislike it when my partner doesn't have enough trust in me. And that leads to misunderstanding each other especially when once does not talk about how he/she felt.

when my gal already disturb my relationship with my friends. she always mad when i hang out with my friend

I don't like when my partner feels that he has to tell me little fibs to keep me pleased. Before he bought his car, he told me he had a licence when he only had a permit. I felt he did not need to lie.

Hi Kartiknaiduk, I am a single woman and I just won't deal with that sort of possessiveness. I dated a man that wanted me to be there with him 24/7. He didn't like me spending any time with friends or my own kids even. He always thought I was cheating on him which was ridiculous. I broke it off after giving it several tries. I just can't be responsible for someone else's very needy emotional well-being. There was always the constant need for reassurance and these types can't ever be fully reassured and if not that then the anger because their needs aren't being met and they feel neglected and unloved. It is draining and the relationship ends up being all work, stressful and not much fun at all. I just won't do it.

Yes you are right too much demanding in love and over possessive is not good into a relationship. We both needs the space between us in order to breath. Jealousy sometimes leads to destruction that is why love is failure. All I can say is love is really wonderful.. thanks and have a nice day!

i hate when i have a bf and he is careless. i dont understand careless people. if we are in love with someone is it so hard to say i love you everyday? is it so hard to care so much and say sweet words and show love? by kisses and hugs and sweet messages? i never understood that bcs when i love a guy i do all for him^^ i show my love absolutely. all i want is to make that person happy showing that i really care so much^^ so i dont understand those people that is ok for them to dont say i love you. thats what i really dont like. i think that if you really love someone you are caring and sweet^^ and not careless at all.

me either.. part of the relationship that i do not like is possessive. to me relationship is build on trust. so if we love someone meaning that we trust him/her, not being so possessive or too much jealousy. it may easy to say but it is hard to do but at least have a try. our partner deserves our trust, so do we.

Being possessive is an immature manner. Just like jealousy in relationship it's very wretched in relationship, I don't truly like it. One thing too is when your partner have no trust to you too. My second dislike to relationship no trust. I mean you know your partner have no trust to you, you feels like a deficient person.

having to love too much that most of the time, my morals are even compromised. having the inexplainable gut feel that leads to jealousy. having to understand things out of confusion that oftentimes creates more problems in the relationship. i dislike them but doesn't mean they discourage me from being the best partner i can be.