Have ever your best friend turned into your worst enemy?
By JackRoy
@JackRoy (242)
United States
October 11, 2010 5:03am CST
I had a friend whom I used to think as my best friend. He was my friend since we were in kindergarten. We used to share everything and used to hang out together always. Something happened in our high school halloween party and ever since he turned into my worst enemy. Have you ever faced similar situation?
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
sorry for you :( anyway if you did something in that party that your friend didnt like maybe you should say sorry^^ and things can be ok again^^ about me i had this friend online that we became best friends and i cared for him as a real friend. i fell in love with him actually without plan and he started to act different with me. made a stupid joke like was in love with me with a girl that was a complete fake. and this girl even humiliated me other day creating a lie about me. he doubted about my word when i said i didnt do that. that girl was a big fake. anyway i stopped and gave up to talk with him bcs he ignored me all the time. i was so sweet and caring to him and he did that. so yes i started to really dont like him anymore. now he and that girl are lovers. is ok they both deserve each other after what he did to me. she is a fake and if he want her good for them. you know when we lose someone that we are so sweet and they act bad they lose and not us^^
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@simoncomet (195)
• India
11 Oct 10
Ya well said I agree with you if such cases happens they truly are the one who are losers.Its sad for what has happened with you but he didn't deserved you that was the case.Have a nice day!! /:)
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@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Yes I already experienced that one. It happened to me a year ago. She was my bestfriend or i consider her as one. we have shared a lot of things in life. we were actually like sisters already until one day. she accused me of flirting with her bf. wherein that guy is my friend before he met my bestfriend. I told her it's not my cup of tea to flirt with guys who are taken. and she clearly know that but then she really got paranoid and she turned out against me. my secrets were all revealed to all of my friends that she knew. I just happen to keep quiet because i still don't want to ruin the friendship but then she still continue to ruin me and my reputation. Then one day I got really fed up of what she was doing to me then it turned out to be that I became her worst enemy.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
aaron your story is really sad :( your bestfriend was too mean to you. accused you when you were not doing nothing and then even told all your secrets to her friends. you were very sweet by taking that and dont do nothing against her. but she continued and went too too far so you did right thing getting pissed off and dont let her continue. i wish that this girl stopped already to do bad to you. maybe she saw that her bf was liking you more than her and decided to accuse you. anyway im sure that your friend, the boy that was dating her, deserves better than a bad girl that did bad to you. i wish that he finds someone better^^
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@elmiko (6630)
• United States
12 Oct 10
no, but i've had some problems with friends in the past i guess due to life's imperfections more then anything. it wasn't nothing major though. i must say that's a really big step to have your best friend turn into your worst enemy. i would assume this is rare.
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@piya84 (2580)
• India
12 Oct 10
Hiii there
Well no it has never happened to me till date.I do have some childhood friends and we are still together and we meet occasionally.Thankfully i have never gone through such a situation.Thats must be very painful.
But i have this girl in my office who pretend as my fiend and she was spreading all bad things about me on my back.I had got a chock when i cam to know whats going on.From that experience i have lean to keep mouth shut and not to talk about your person things in office.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
HI,
Sad to learn that your bestfriend turn to be
worst enemy and I believe they must be something going
wrong with your relationship with him,or else how can he turn to
be another person.
Maybe you can find a day and let's have a chat with him,to work
out on the problem.
It is just wasted to lose this kind of old mates.
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
Hi Jack, I feel so sorry for you, it must be really sad when one of our bestfriend became our worst enemy in life, especially after we shared a lot of things together.
For me, I never had an experience like this. I have bestfriend and we do always argue, because even though we were a best friend since we in primary school but we still have a lot of differences and opinion about a lot of thing. But we never really went too far where we can't forgive each other anymore. Even though we are now far away from each other and working in a different place, we still stay in contact even if we can only communicate few times a month.
I hope you can make up with your best friend again if there ever be a chance but if not then I hope you will get over it and forgive him when you are ready to.
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@delkar (1712)
• Romania
11 Oct 10
I had the same experience this year, a few months ago . My best friend made something and we had a fight and afer that all was changed . We were best friends from the begining of the college . We were at the same college and at the end of college we had this situation. Now we talk a little, but it will never be like it was until that moment . It`s sad, but he made a big mistake, and not once, for a few times in the same day , after i`ve told him that it bothers me that .
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@concept001 (430)
• India
11 Oct 10
Yes I have had this experience not once or twice but thrice in my life. Its very worst. It hurts a lot. When your best friend becomes your worst enemy it becomes very worst. Because we share all our secrets even our weakness and the things which can bring lot of problems in our life. I don't understand sometimes why they did like this. But somewhere in my heart I feel that I am responsible for what had happened with me. Never trust anyone. This is a famous saying but I never implement this.Every time I decide this but again believe everybody.
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@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
I also have an experienced almost like yours jackyboy. I have a friend in high school, we went to college together and share almost everything we were so close before. But suddenly because of our some friends we're no longer friends right now. We don't really treat each other as enemies but it sad because she act as if she don't know me. I really miss her, I wish someday we will be friends again.
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@simoncomet (195)
• India
11 Oct 10
Well no thankfully it had never happened and I personally never want to cause I always want him to be my best friend.Have a nice day and hope you'll sort out your misunderstandings.Happy mylotting!! :)
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@piggy1987 (63)
• China
11 Oct 10
one of my best friends had told others about my secret. i was angry at that time but i forgave her later. since that on, i never told anyone about my secret.
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@kendrathil (308)
• India
11 Oct 10
till no, i don't have such an experience. ut nothing can be said of the future as we are all human beings
@wenchuang (37)
• China
22 Oct 10
I also have case in elementary school,when playing well in junior high, before we have agreed to meet in junior high school do best friend but didn't wo say so ,he began to change isn't he himself alse become alienated we become strange,but not enemies--
@tcup345 (358)
• United States
12 Oct 10
Oh yes, years ago, my friend and I were very close. We had children nearly the same age. We did everything together. Then one night, while my husband was working, I was on the phone with her, she was telling me about a huge fight she and her husband just had. While we were talking, her husband knocked on my door. She begged me to let him in and try to talk to him,convince him how much she loved him and wanted him back. He was drunk. Instead of listening to me, talking with me, he raped me. He used me to hurt her in the best way he knew how. After he left, she called again and I told her what he did, I should have called the police but she begged me not to and because of our friendship, I didn't. She blamed me, she called my husband at work, told him that her husband and I were having an affair. My husband came home in a rage. After that, she would show up at my door wanting to fight, she painted obscenities on the front of my home, we were renting at the time, that didn't go over well with our landlord. She tried to fight with me at my front door and in the process my little daughter was hurt. This friend who once cared about my children didn't care that my child was hurt. This woman's lack of class and intelligence shone through at this time. To stop her from harrassing me, I had to go to an attorney, he wrote her a letter stating that we will press charges against her and her husband if she persisted. My husband is now my ex-husband and to this day he throws it at my face that he didn't believe that I was raped. He also claims that our three children are not his, they're grown now and he does not have a relationship with them. He denies them to hurt me, all three look like him and his family, he's a fool. The rape was the start of the downward spiral of our marriage. My best friend wasn't happy destroying our friendship, she wanted to ruin everything good I had. I've since moved to another state, remarried a wonderful man who was terrific to my kids and our grandkids. These last 25 years have been the best of my life, sadly my wonderful husband passed away but those years have outshone any of my life previous. Unfortunately, my ex-husband is still living but he is misrably unhappy, full of anger, I couldn't ask for better revenge.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
12 Oct 10
Well this never happen in my life when my best friend becomes turned into my enemy. And I hope never this time comes in my life. Because I always care about my friendship and never want that a friends turned into an enemy.
@danielashaira (86)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
yeah, it happen to me before. It was a sad experienced. when i look back i missed her sometimes. this happened when she start the gossip, she always talk against me.
@marj22 (73)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
I had a friend and I did consider her as one of my good and trusted friend. I thought I knew her very well but i was wrong, she did not value the friendship we had, she threw away our friendship in just a glimpse. It does not have to be detailed, what i know is she never consider and value me as a true friend, she is a social climber...