Not nervous speaking in public?

@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
October 11, 2010 5:21am CST
As we know, public speaking / many people it is a very difficult thing, nervous that we will feel until probably feels half of the deaths ... lol But maybe with the habit will become accustomed to not nervous, I salute the people who can be active to do it without training. Do you feel nervous to speak in front of crowds? If not, what the secret?
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7 responses
• Indonesia
16 Nov 10
the old habits that made not nervous to appear or speak in front of many people, my first time really nervous and shy but once accustomed it was great to just talk in front of many people
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 10
An effective way to conquer fear is to face it, Feeling nervous when appearing in public is normal. Choky even acknowledge, with hours of flying higher and higher, this man still keeps nervous as a reminder to not brag on the stage.Honest make more relaxed
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
i used to get cold feet whenever i go out for client calls as we needed to do a presentation. Aside from time, it would also help if you know you know some of the audience in a personal level.
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
This is one of the things which I'm scared of. Even now that I already graduated I still never get over the fear of being the center of attention. I'm the type of person who has a low self-esteem. I don't know where would I be able enhance my talent for this matter.
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
Nervousness cannot be taken away from you when you talk in front of the public. I think it's a matter of practice. You have to expose your self in a lot of talking. In our church we have the testimony Sunday every first Sabbath day of the month. It's really a great training to me. Since then I have already the courage to speak in crowds. One of the most unforgetable experiences I had was when I was in college. It was our Pinning and Candle Lighting Ceremony and I was asked to give the testimony about my college life. Yes of course I'm nervous but I have to overcome that. It's really hard to have that courage to try but if you really trust in God, He will guide you on what to do. The point is...just have the courage and trust God!!! I know you can do it...just be your self!
@luna1980 (53)
• Thailand
12 Oct 10
I am not but secret is just be yourself. All my friends always suprise me to speak or singing song in the public or the stage, I was only say "Hey, why you do that to me?? " but I still have to do for them ;p Ask yourself and be who you are, but you have to speak what you believed too. One time and it will never again.. that is my boss let me speak about the business and it was cheat thing.. I just so nervous and I hate my self to much that time.. Yes, I can't speak it at all.. I makes my boss disappionted, but I knew myself that I can't speak lie to people,I can't speak lie to myself :)
@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
11 Oct 10
I understand you a lot! I even have fainted while making public speach once at university and i cannot get over it now. Everytime somebody asks me to say something not one to one, but to bunch of people i feel my self very uncomfortable and my nerves want to exploid since i am scared, nervous and thoughtless in one time. Now i decided that every next time when i will feel like this i will use some pills or drungs which will probably relax my nerves. I envy those people who can speak freely at people crowds and in public meetings.