did a guy/girl that you didnt expect to love you, loved you?^^ ahah

I knew this girl all through highschool and I always thought she didn't like me. I thought she was very good looking and suited my tastes in odd women lol. We had the same friends so we ended up being around each other quite a bit. I am, honest to god, one of the sweetest guys I know and it still seemed like she was just bothered by me. I would see her laughing with the friends we shared and when I approached, she would clam up and become very distant, almost like she wanted to leave because I was there. Anyways, once we graduated I began to hang out with her brother a lot and it seemed like she had become more comfortable talking to me, at least on a normal, person to person level. One day when I was visiting her brother, her brother became very busy with something else and I was supposed to wait for him while he took care of it. It was just me and this girl making small talk. We were talking about highschool and friends and were having a pretty good time laughing and stuff when she admits that she used to have a crush on me. I was having a hard time thinking of a way to tell her that I had a crush on her as well because, at the time I was already in the progress of beginning another relationship and I didn't want to lead her on. I really liked her though and she wanted to talk about a relationship. We had some time before her brother got back so we went for a walk. She told me she was distant because she thought that I didn't like her (which is BS by the way. I was very nice to her. lol) and she really wanted us to start a relationship. I was trying to explain that me and another girl had been starting something when she grabs me and kisses me. I was pretty confused emotionally but I told her I was going to continue work on my current relationship. A mistake I regret to this day. On the other hand, she may have turned out to be just as bad as the girl I went with. The girl I chose to be with seemed very attractive at first too. lol

Yes, someone fell inlove with me unexpectedly. And so far, that incident was the worst problem my boyfriend and I have ever had. That was year 2008 when one of our scholar was called from the province to work at our main office. He seldom talks but we all knew that he is some kind of a jolly and intelligent person since he is one of our best scholars. During his first weeks with us, what he did was just work and do not even mingle with us. He was younger than me and he has a girlfriend. We started to know each other because of a very funny situation I guess. I noticed him not even standing from his seat. I didn't see him go out to have lunch as well as snacks. Then one time, I brought a loaf of bread and give some to him. And then he smiled, took the bread and thank me. Then I realized that maybe he doesn't have enough money that time because he was only called to assist an international conference which one of our department will be hosting. He was a simple university instructor in the province before he transferred to us. Because of what I did, he became closer to me. And finally, asked if he could lend some money from me. He explained that he has used his money to rent a house which he thinks are too expensive but could not find another during that time. I do understand him, because when I first came to the city, I have had the same problem. That's how we became closer. He borrowed me some money and said that he would just return it upon receiving his salary. Actually, he will be receiving much higher salary than mine because he got a higher position mainly because he already finished he graduated cumlaude and already finished his masteral at a very young age. He was really a nice and funny guy. No wonder why after few months of his stay with us, all of us began to like him. He is kind and very respectful. We were close that time maybe because we could talk about anything and we could even borrow money from each other. He talks about his family and his girlfriend and I never expect him to fall for me. I didn't realized that he felt that way until one of officemate told me. I was busy that time and needed to stay late at the office and he said that he would just be waiting for me. I said it is necessary since I really do not know when I can finish my work. But he said he has other things to do so he stayed. We were walking that time when he asked if we could go out and have dinner together. I was kind of hesitant that time because I don't think it would be nice to see me out with another guy. But then, I thought that we are friends and there's nothing wrong with it. But while we are having dinner, he started opening a topic which never crossed my mind. He started explaining how hard it is to be in the city while all your loved ones are in the the province. Then he said he was thankful that he met me. He said he didn't want to feel the way he feels because he already has a gf but he said he loves me. I was not able to talk. I wanted to laugh that time but I could see that he was serious. I explained to him our situation. That maybe he was just missing his family and gf. If the time comes that he would be back to the province, he will realized that he really doesn't love me. That he has to think more about his feelings. But he stayed with us for more than a year. And everything went wrong. I started moving away to him especially when my boyfriend noticed that there is something happening between the two of us. I do not want to lose my bf so I decided to keep distance. We no longer talk to each other until he decided to continue his studies abroad. Currently, he is Japan taking up another Masters Degree. We had the chance to talk to each other before he left and it really breaks my heart. But I couldn't do anything. I love my bf. He still calls me, once in a while.

Well there were many girl in my University days.Who Used to like me.But I propsed Only One Girl In My Life time and after that I never let other girls Cross the Limit. But there is another interesting incident I would Like to share here. I rememeber, I was Attending a Natinal Camp For N.S.S For My Unveristy out of my State In India at Kanpur.There many Incidents happened Due to which, I became very famous in the camp.So I had many friends too, One of the Boys from that state Became my close Friend, He did a lot for me,One day he asked me to get him the Phone number of a girl in that camp, whom he liked very much, as he said that the girl is very close to me and talks to me a lot. I said ok , I will Do it for you,I had no Interest In that girl, besides taht she was and still is my one good friend, though she is far away from me and now married to some other fellow than him. So It was Nearly second last day of the camp, To My surprise that Same Girl herself came to me and asked for my phone number and other details about me and gave her numberto me , without my intentionor asking for the number, and also wrote some poem in my praise on the same paper on which she gave her number. Seeing this I became very surpirsed,Any How I went back to my room with my roommates.That friend of Mine came to me at Night.Before his asking me for the Number I handed over the whole chit carry the number and the poem. You Wont belive me, Seeing that he just started crying literally. I asked him what happened, he said, I will Console for this, I didnt understand that, later, My other friends told me that he was interested in that girl, But The Girl is Interested in you. In The Morning I went to my friend and told him that I am going back to my state and far away from you and her, I am not interested in her.So dont take any tensions From my side, She is all yours. After Some years, that same girl,left her home state and came a little bit closer to my state and contacted me through mails and phone calls and we met each other, Thats another Story. So what do u have to say about my stroy.

Oh yes my current live in boyfriend as he really was not the type I would expect to be in love with. However, his caring and attentive nature won my heart immediately, so sometimes I think that I did not know why I did not broaden my horizon when I first met him. He is a very intelligent, educated, kind and an actor, so when I first met him I wasn't sure if he was acting or not. But time evolved in a way where he has been so great. In fact tomorrow is my birthday and I am quite sad as my friends no longer chose to see if I am even alive as since I am no longer working off-line I suppose they think I am not worthy as a friend, so yesterday my boyfriend and I were talking about this and of course he said to me not to worry as they were not ture friends to begin. I realize that but it makes hurt quite a great deal as I told him it makes me feel unappreciated, and so today, about 2 hours of him being at work, he text me a message and said to me I want you to know how much I do appreciate and love you.. Too cute... I would never have thought he would be this way and was I wrong.

\Hi there sweetlove, I have experienced such when I was still single.. Well, ahm, almost single. I was working to this Appliance store and there was this sort of new supervisor who's tall, and handsome and I had a crush on.. My co-workers would always joke around about him because he was a heart throb. Someone told me that she sometimes notice the supervisor keeps on looking at me. I just told her " that kind of guy, I would never dream of" because I think he has super high standards when it comes to girls.. But then he told me he liked me.. But the thing is, I was about to get married. And I didn't like the feeling that I would hurt him... That was a past already though..

Yes I experienced something like this.I loved a girl for 5 years and it was one sided.When I compleated my 12 class,She said that c loved me too although she knew this 5 years ago when I proposed her but when she said me that she loved me,it was too late.I was in relationship with other.

Hi there! I think that is really cute. You might make a cute couple with the guy. As for me, I have been hanging out with this guy friend for a while and I never expected that we would be together. Until one night when he drove me home, he kissed me on the lips! I was really shocked. And the next day, he told me that he loved me. Then I realized that I had feelings for him all along. Until now, we are still together. It was an unexpected love.

Hello there, I strongly doubt i had people liking me because i know i wasn't good enough. but at least they have time to say "hi and hello" or invite me to other places here and there. however, being liked is something far off. i think i didn't have this experience in my teenage or college years. however, i think i had once experience with a girl who kept holding my hand when we(students)had this gathering in the church. sad to say, i was stupid to figure out. we have our moments.

I think love is not a game which will always played by person. I think love is a sacred feeling of hearts which will comes for our someone special whom we saw in our dreams. As you say that when we didn’t expected love from someone and then he/she love us then I want to say that it is possible only in movies. Not in real life. But sometimes it is also possible in someone’s life. I am a person who always gives respect to love. Because I know the values of love and I am also know when someone hurts you then what types of pain you can feel.

haha :) its me again :) well, i never thought my current boyfriend would ever say he loves me. the way he treated me before, and the way he talked to me before, not a sign that he's interested :)) especially when one time, he got so mad at me that he left me in the mall alone. :)) (well actually i was with my friend, and that's why he's mad. and left me) after that incident, he didnt talk to me or texted me for almost two months. when he finally did, he started saying that he likes me. when he finally said that he loves me, i was shocked! and i didnt believe him :)) i didnt take it seriously :))

I had this guy friend whom I treated as my only close guy friend way back in kindergarten. Two months ago, he contacted me and we talked, filling in on all the years we missed. We were that close. That was the time he chose to tell me that he had a huge crush on me for years but I never noticed at all! lol He didn't like me that time so it wasn't awkward, just funny. =D There was also this other guy who was a common friend of my childhood friend. We didn't meet yet but we were exchanging text messages frequently. I was surprised when he told me he loved me. I didn't reply with an 'I love you too' though I liked him. But when he repeated that line months later, I responded. And that was when my ex became my boyfriend. ;)

I had a similar situation after I married. But I told my wife about it and it is a secret among the three of us -- myself, wife and the lover.

i felt that somehow .. but never know the truth behind it .. love from highschool beautiful .. lmao

ya i encountered this type of situation once one girl she is a friend of my friend she just saw me once and she told to my frnd that she loves me ahh i even dont know her and i dont know what to do at that time and i told i need some time frnzz suggest me shall i agree with her or not.......