Are you going to get married soon?
By xorticanz
@xorticanz (377)
India
October 11, 2010 12:50pm CST
A nice question to ask all of here. I love to get married within a year soon. I am sure many of you have plans to be a bachelor. I am feeling enough of being single and like to start my family life. Anyway my age is 26 now, I like to get married by end of 27 years so that i can settle back in my native in the next year. I also would look for a job in my native so that i can save a lot and concentrate on my family all my life. This will give direction and growth in my professional life I am looking for. As of now i have laid 5 years of good service which can do good use of. Share your thoughts on the same.
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12 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
i have plans of getting married soon. but it will be next year. i have been with my girl since 2008. i think we have built our relationship quite strong to move it into the another level. besides, both of us are past 30s. what may get into the plan is my current situation. i am pursuing my PhD which will not be finished after 4 years. i am only starting this year. anyway, i am looking forward and quite excited to start a life with her.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
11 Oct 10
Yes, I am getting married next year and I am currently planning my wedding.
Do you have a girlfriend at the moment? If so, then your plan might be realistic, but if not, I would advice you not to rush into marriage with someone you haven't even met yet. It is important to get to know the other person properly before you marry!
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
12 Oct 10
I got married at 21. I think getting married is only a matter of finding the right person and being ready to be married together, not following some arbitrary deadline.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Oct 10
I didn't want to get married early. The fact is I got married at the age of 28. I thought I wouldn't be ready for marriage before 25 because I wouldn't be mature enough. Even today I am still childish sometimes. Marriage is a serious thing and I didn't want to make a wrong decision. So everything shall be tested by time.
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@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
We are planning to get married maybe next year but we have to save money first for the wedding. I am looking forward on it, I still believe in marriage and everyone should prioritize getting married before having children.
@pecito (303)
• Bulgaria
12 Oct 10
Personally I don't believe in marriage.Never got married and never will.I know we shouldn't say'never' but marriage is the greatest hypocrisy in the world.Most partners cheat on each other in marital life and they swear to god they never will.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
Hi,
It is good that you have the plan to get married and settle down at
the aged of 27. Good choice.
So have you prepared all the things for your marriage? SInce it is once
in a lifetime, of course, you have to do it Grant.
I am married for more than 5 years and have one son.
Ending my single life is like going to another new life for me.
Especially after have a kid, I have to join the motherhood life and
I have to play the duty as a good wife and a good mother at home.
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
12 Oct 10
Personally speaking, I'm not going to get married soon, which means in the next two years. In my view, marriage means a totally new stage in my life, which is quite different from the stage I've already experienced. In order to have a good marriage, there are quite a lot of preparatory work I must do before getting married. Obviously I'm not ready yet. At present I have to concentrate myself on my work.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
12 Oct 10
No I have no any planning for get marrying very soon. Because first of all I want to settled my self and after that I will think about marriage. Because I think it is too must to be settled in a good jobs and after that it is good to think about marry. I think then you have no any worrying about good jobs because then you have already good jobs.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 10
I'm also 26 and I'm getting married next year too just after I will turn 27. I also had enough of being single haha...kind of lonely
My fiance and I are planning many things for the wedding now, we also already have chosen a date and we are happy with it. Because we have been far away from each other for 5 years so soon we will finally be able to live together and live a normal life like other couple do.
My fiance and I are planning many things for the wedding now, we also already have chosen a date and we are happy with it. Because we have been far away from each other for 5 years so soon we will finally be able to live together and live a normal life like other couple do.
@t2_group (60)
• Vietnam
12 Oct 10
Hi xorticanz,
27 years old is not soon. I think that the best age for men to get married is among 27 to 30. At that age, we can recognize that what conditions need for family life for preparing. The key duty you need is to find a stable job next by your living now if possible to support for your family and life. Second thing you should prepare your psychology for family living such as household sharing with wife, take care of children, instead of coming bar after working, you must be home in time. Many thing for you preparing when get married.
@nero_ocelot23 (435)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
Best wishes in advance! I'll be married five years from now(hope so). I need to have an established career before getting married,probably to own a business. I want to give the best security a family can have. it's undeniable that living isn't easy nowadays. So I'll be married when I'm 28 years old. Thank you. May you have a blessed married life soon!
