i let him go... if he lets me go too... means he doesnt love me? T_T

Hola! Sorry to hear that.Just give your bf some time to think and one of these days he will contact and patch things up with you,dont worry much. Here is the english translation of her message to you: You dont need to tell everything about your feelings..there are things that you need to hide because you might hurt someones feelings.. Hope you are ok.Just pray..:-)

]Hello Sweet, di naman na kailangang sabihin lahat ng nararamdaman.. may mga bagay na dapat itago sa sarili na lamang,. kasi di m0 alam, may mga ta0 n palang nasasaktan They don't have to say everything that they Feel. there are things that it's best kept for themselves. because you don't know, there are people who are already hurt. WHAT THE HELL?! THIS IS FILIPINO LANGUAGE!my language that IS. Whom and where this message coming from? was it meant for you? or some one else? Is you're Boyfriend a Filipino? you could have told us. a lot of Filipino Mylotters could have helped you along the WAY. well, he's such a HUUGE jerk, taking you obviously for granted. i hope you don't leave face-book, honestly,i also want to add you.am online every single day.

I thinks what he mean is " he shouldn't need to say everything/whatever he feels, there are things that is better to hide for itself or left unspoken. Because you didn't know, there are someone that you might hurt. I am not really good in translation. But the way i understand his sentences. I hope my comprehension and translation might help you.

hi sweetlove, sorry to hear about all these negative things about your bf but having followed your posts since i got here, i must say you have gotten far out of your way just to please this guy. i know you love him too much but please don't make yourself feel miserable just because he hasn't talked to you or anything.i can see that you are a firm believer of sweet love and being together forever but there is one negative thing i observed though, you have become a bit of a possessive girlfriend already dear... if it makes you sad, just let it go. if you don't want to, go ahead hold on but don't ever whine about the difficulties you have to deal with along the way. it's your choice anyway so be prepared for whatever is to come. one thing i learned with boyfriends lying or not telling some things is that, wait for them to explain to you.don't assume right away as he might have a really good reason to tell you; you might end up feeling silly for actually crying over something that is too shallow. if you can handle him not telling you anything after some time, then just forget about it. if you want to confront him, be ready if you get yourself into an argument. but deary, after all that has been said and done, i guess the best way to go is just let go... based on what you were saying even from the previous posts, he doesn't care much. might sound harsh but i hope im wrong here- you're only making a big mess out of something that should long been let go of, and it has not done you good that you felt it was real but all along it was not... i speak as though you are my sister because i can see from here that you are hurting

this is the second statement tht u let him go... lets concentrate on first statement... why did u let him go... dint u love him... obviously not thts y u let him go.. if ur first statement is negative thn no use to jump to the second statemnt and comment there :)

Here is the translation of the TAGALOG lines: We don't have to be vocal on everything that we feel. Some things are better to be keep to ourselves because sometimes we're not aware that someone might get hurt. It is never true that LOVE IS BLIND. The truth is we are aware of the bad attitude/unpleasing characteristics of our partner but we choose to IGNORE them because we are too in love with them. Sweetie,he's not worth of your time,as I'm always saying to you,It must not always you who makes an effort for the relationship to work. You just have to face the reality. moving on is a gradual process.

Do your boyfriend and you speak the same language? I am wondering why you could not understand the words that your boyfriends sister wrote if thats the case. That is wonderful that she let him use her cellphone to call you twice. That can be really expensive. I think you letting him go is doing the right thing because then you will know if he is acutally interested or not if he comes back and is upset that you let him go.

Hi Sweetlove, From all I have seen about this guy I think you are doing yourself a huge favor by letting him go. I know it hurts right now but in time you will meet someone else and hopefully someone closer to you and more respectful than this guy. Even if he begs you to stay, I hope you don't go back to this. When someone changes just because you are giving up on them, it is almost always a temporary change and soon he'd be back to his old ways again.

I just read this post of yours and I feel sad what happen between you and your boyfriend. I don't know or anybody here knows what he actually means by that and to whom he intends to say it but I can sense something is going one wrong. Your such an adorable, beautiful lady sweetlove, its your boyfriend's loss anyways not yours of taking you for granted as I can recall you made a post of not greeting you in your first monthsary, and to me, thats insane for a man not to remember it. You have loved him that much but he took your love for granted now your are hurt a lot now, perhaps your decision of letting him go is the best thing that you can do by now. Be strong my dear you'll see one day you will meet someone who deserves you much better. Cheers to you, from your friends here in mylot.

Hi Sweetie, I'm very sorry and I know you must feel really hurt as I have been reading and following all your posts about him and I know how much you loved him. No matter what, now you must believe that the decision you just made is always for your best. Even for a short distance relationship, this guy certainly don't deserves someone like you. Because ignoring for few days without saying anything is not nice to do to especially to a person that really loves us and the fact that there's a chance to contact, but this time he just went away to see his cousin and never spoke to your since few days. Anyway, please be strong..I dunno what that language means as it is not my language but whatever it is saying there, I hope it is not going to add up your pain. Cheer up and always smile

here's what I understand from what his sister said: -she really cares for you, she saw that you're a good girl, and she realised that her brother doesn't deserve you. she might now certain things about him, but she didn't want to tell them to you because she knew you'll end up hurt. she said 'she\'s sorry",well i don't think that was because of guys she likes...usually in a discussion when you say "so do I", the whole sentence it's "i'm sorry for you too"..as I said she probably knows something but she can't tell you...because your boyfriend has to do it. It's better that you left him go, if he loves you he;ll come back for you, if he doesn;t..than it's the best decision of your life

Well I think take a deep breath and if you really feel that the love between you and your boyfriend has vanished I would advice you to once more talk to him and clear out things and if you feel like leaving him you can do that and if you feel hurt think that you wanted a thing which was not yours and there is a right one for you some were and always trust a guy who does not about your attractiveness but about you who really thinks that you are the world's most beautiful girl who always cares for you who can do anything for you who loves as much as you love him who doesn't care about the world only cares about you for whom your heart says that you cannot get better than this ,without whom you cannot live and about whom you you keep thinking every two minutes I wish some thing really nice happen to you......

Whoa. I thought you were going to have a great relationship with that guy. He was a coward to not have told you that he doesn't want the relationship to go on. You deserve better. I hope you could move on. I could only tell you not to expect a call or anything from the guy because expectations could hurt us. And I think LetranKnight translated the sentences well. I am not that good in Tagalog although I am Filipino. =D

It is quite sad that love is being lost between the two of you. But may be he would come to you again and shower more love. If he comes again, then you can accept him. but if you feel that you do not have any more love for him, then it is better trying to forget everything.

Oh. After hearing this I am worrying about this. Because how can your boyfriend show too many careless about you. I think now he is ignored you. Because if he really caring about you then he never ignore your message and calls. So I think now you may also think about your relationship. Because I think love relationship not stands by one side so both side commitments are necessary for this relationship.

Letting go... So the parting words speaks a lot. If you're going to meet sometime, somewhere down the road, those words would play once again. Don't worry it's not yet the end, you still have a lot of road to cover. Keep your eyes on it and you shall go smoothly. The words translates thus: "It is not always necessary to say everything that are felt. There are things that should never be revealed and just remain hidden in oneself...because you may never know, it may cause some pain for others." Truth hurts. It shall also set you free if you're willing to go with it. A Porta Inferi, Veritas Liberabit Vos!