Friends over lovers?

I think it's not worth giving up on friendship for someone you are not sure is the 'one' for you. I think if both of us fell in love with the same man, I would yield. I would just let go of the feeling and let her have him. However, if he shows effort that he wants me then he should learn to fight for me instead of us (girls) fighting over him. Not to mention that this is quite an ego for the guy - two women who are friends fighting over him while he's doing nothing to choose or prove that he loves either of us enough to do something about it.

This is a very typical situation in movies but still, when you think of it as happening to you, it gets tough. Even if you say that never will I fight with my best friend over a guy, you never know what will happen. But personally, I think I would totally go for my friend instead. It's also because I never experienced a friend of mine liking the same guy. Maybe a crush but not the serious boyfriend type. When I see movies like this, it always never looked good best friends fighting over a guy.

I think this question would apply to men. Being a woman, my stand on this is if the guy and I are in-love with each other then I'll of course pursue my love. I'm sure my friend will understand that. However, if I only like the guy and he doesn't like me anyway, I would not risk losing my friend because of a feeling that is not reciprocated in the first place.

Fight for the one you love -- in making decisions, use your heart first, if ever you fail or you got lost while using your heart, then use your brain to correct your mistakes. By using your heart, you erase the thoughts of what ifs. There's always joy in making mistakes.

of course it is a critical situation to say..but my point is that i will take over the love , rather than friend. as a practical thinking i come to this decision. we can say by words all. but if we are in that point, love is first. also it depends upon the girl, . at first we want to clear that ' who is the lover of that girl??

about me i would fight for the guy^^ bcs if you let him to your best friend maybe he didnt love her. and you were losing a guy that maybe loved you for someone that he doesnt love :) but if he loved my best friend sure i would let him be with her^^ in love we must always try our chance but without hurt nobody and we cant be selfish^^ i would tell my best friend that i also love him and if he loves her that i give up but if he loves me i cant^^ some people say ohh i let for my best friend but if guy loves you? you lost the chance to be happy and he even cant be happy with your best friend bcs doesnt love her. so i would fight till know his feelings^^

I hate choices in a dillema situation but I guess I would choose to fight for the one I love. No one can take away the fact that I have shared great moments with my bestfriend but thats it- it stops there although we are still friends for whatever reason our bond would always remain in me. BUT finding a true love goes beyond the borders of friendship it is a rare chance that anybody could grab.

Before if a friend of mine liked a guy I liked I would just forget about my crush and not mention it. Now I'm not so sure. It would depend on how much I like this guy and how much she liked him too. Whoever liked him more would win. I think it's kind of bad to go for the same guy, but sometimes it cannot be helped.