Do you believe that behind every successful man there is a women................
By mustafarox
@mustafarox (453)
India
October 12, 2010 10:57am CST
Do you believe that behind every successful man there is a women and behind every unsuccessful man there are two,three and many more. Normally I used to think that women want to take all the credit of there man's success but after falling in love with someone I feel that women support their men so much because of that they can reach to their goal what do you think guys??
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
12 Oct 10
A loving woman can double your success.She encourages you, supports you in difficult moments and you feel you have someone you can trust.It's great.I believe that good partners increase our success in life while bad partners gradually destroy our lives.And you'll never know what you gonna get.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
12 Oct 10
Why is it always the man's success? Women are sucessful too...they just don't get the credit they deserve cause it always goes to the man...I venture to say that seldom will you find a sucessful male CEO, that doesn't have a fabulous female "secretary" pushing him along, cutting the red tape, fixing and organizing everything he does so that he can do it the way it is needed to be done so that he will be sucessful. Women never get the credit that men do...
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
12 Oct 10
Mustafa's discussing the subject from the man's point of view, that's why it sounds a bit chauvinistic to you.
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@mustafarox (453)
• India
12 Oct 10
ya you are right choosing a right partner is a very difficult task and we have to be sure he/she is really nice or else they can also destroy our lives.....
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@ivo_shkafov (399)
• Bulgaria
12 Oct 10
No,I don't,I think behind every financialy sucessful man,there is a woman,waiting on him to die or something and get his money.
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@mustafarox (453)
• India
13 Oct 10
well you are right but I am talking about the man who is not that successful and he becomes successful because of a women....
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
12 Oct 10
why does she have to be "behind" him? Can't they be sucessful hand in hand?
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@mustafarox (453)
• India
13 Oct 10
Well truly respect and I believe that women can do anything if they can make a man successful they can even destroy him but here we are talking about that normally behind every successful man there is a women if it comes to women they don't need man's help they can become successful in their life...
@thedaddym (1731)
• United States
12 Oct 10
Well I don't think every successful man has a good woman behind him but I do think that having a good woman can certainly help a man become more successful. To have someone who loves and supports you gives you much more confidence. Plus my wife takes care of everything at home so that I am free to be the best that I can be at my work. So I do think a good woman can help a man be more successful.
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@mustafarox (453)
• India
12 Oct 10
Well you are right because of the women we feel relaxed and she is the best person to speak about our problems so that we can solve it and become more successful....
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
That is QUITE TRUE because successful men do not have JUST ANY WOMAN, so let me rephrase your statement. BEHIND EVERY MAN'S SUCCESS IS A SUPPORTING AND LOVING WOMAN.
Women have that natural instinct to nurture and care, so a other, sister and wife are behind man's success. The mother from the very beginning was the one pushing you, guys, to walk and do things on your own. She was the one encouraging you you to do better. Your sister is your very first friend. You may not have realized it but she was the one who took charge when your mum is out.The wife, is the woman who brings out the best in you. She inspires you and with the love and care she is showing you, you believe that you can do anything and everything for you and for your family...
All of them, have supported you and understand your needs and wants, aspirations in life. without their supports, I doubt if men can go any further...:)
@mustafarox (453)
• India
13 Oct 10
yes you are right what ever man is today is because of the women in every stage he finds a woman's hand for him and who shares man every problem and helps him in all the things he does....
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
14 Oct 10
I think back in thr day whwn most successful people were men and most of them were married this statement was true. Either by being a coach egging him on . Or being a Lady Macbeth forcing him to make it, or just by being his muse, there was a woman backing him up. But now? With many single men that ar successful without the support of a woman , I think this is an old fashioned saying.But with that said , I believe there are many couples out ther who Do show their support for their mate. But these days it can and some cases is the man supporting his wife/ girlfriend. Or it is a gay couple. So I guess we ned to say for every successful person there is support, Undying support.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
12 Oct 10
I think that behind every succesfull man there is an official woman or maybe not, but definently there are more girls in his life, because always a succesfull man will have around him just pretty girls . All that success will bring him a lot of stress, and the woman or the girls behind him need to make him to relax, to be fresh in the next day . A woman can make a difference between 2 men , because maybe one will be relaxed and will be able to take better decisions , and the other one will be stressed .
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@rautrahul (267)
• India
18 Oct 10
Not necessarily. Sure, behind some successful men there are women. But behind some successful women there are men. both can achieve equal success. I would say the more accurate statement would be "Behind every successful person, there is a whole group of family/friends". No one can achieve success purely on his or her own. Other people have influenced, supported, challenged or encouraged that person to be who they have become.
@pastorlamont (184)
• United States
13 Oct 10
Not really. Some men who are successful do have good women that support them, but that's not the case all the time. In fact, there are some instances where a successful man (Business - wise), has a terrible relationship w/his wife/girlfriend.
I believe the measure of success rests soley upon that person...the icing on the cake however is a good woman backing you up.
@mustafarox (453)
• India
14 Oct 10
I am not particularly talking about wife the women can be anyone like your mother or sister...well even I am a successful businessman and I am single but what ever I am today is because of my mother.....
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
12 Oct 10
I do not take credit for my husband's success, but I do help him out a ton. I am the one who schedules everything and plans dinner, so he has to tell me ahead of time any meetings he has, which is helping him. I do keep the house, and do the laundry. if it was up to him he would go to work all wrinkly.
When I started my first job, and he was in a steady work environment, he took over the house work, so I could concentrate on my new job. It is not a one way street.
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@mustafarox (453)
• India
12 Oct 10
oh so you mean that you cannot clap with one hand you need both hands so it's good that you both love each other and help each other a lot ,support and respect each others work...
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@rijovjohn (428)
• India
15 Oct 10
I dont think behind every successful man there is a women. In some cases it is true and in some case it is wrong.If one have a motivating women , then it will surely help him. But i think there are many people who succeed with our women.
There is one more thing. Women is loving successful man.If a women can love a man who is a failure and turn him to sucessful then only the credit can be fully given to women. I think it is not good to give the credit of a man success entirely to a women.
@idodatder (39)
• United States
13 Oct 10
no because most men now a days are gay Lol in all seriously I wouldn't say 100% of men. right
@mustafarox (453)
• India
14 Oct 10
well I am single but I feel w ever I am is because of my mother so it is not necessary that the women mentioned should be wife...
@ziyadahinc212 (552)
• United States
13 Oct 10
YES! One 1,000,000,000% right behind every successful man there is a woman driving him to be successful!
@j1a2g3a4n5 (141)
• India
13 Oct 10
ya. womens plays a major role in our life. they will be as part of all things that happening. even it is success or failure all due to womens.. mostly i saw persons who seen failures behalf of women..
@j1a2g3a4n5 (141)
• India
13 Oct 10
ya. womens plays a major role in our life. they will be as part of all things that happening. even it is success or failure all due to womens.. mostly i saw persons who seen failures behalf of women..
@silentcandle (60)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 10
I do believe behind every successful man there is a women, be it a bad or a good one. However, a successful man living with happiness has a good women behind him. She may be his wife, lover, mum, daughter, sister or any lady he know.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 10
most of them yes.i do think that in most of the successful men there is someone behind him who giving him support and courage towards his goal.does not matter if the people is a woman, friend or family there must be some one or some people that contributing to it~
@tonicocojam (12)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
i agree to this not because i am a woman but because i got several stories that proved that. Man will always look back at their women to get strength and inspiration. Behind every success in life is an inspiration to work hard, a reason to live, an energy to endure. Thats what women can do.