Gossip part 3
By bigal3
@bigal3 (1231)
Thailand
October 13, 2010 3:16am CST
Well hello all out there in MyLot land. It's been awhile since I've been here. Had a few things to sort out but now the old head is back on straight mostly.
Thank you all for your previous suggestions and wisdom.
Now to the point. What I considered "gossip" in reality was "CARING ABOUT MIS-GUIDED ME! Idon't know how many of you know the term "eating croe", but in America nd parts of Europe it means being very humble when you have screwed up and more or less insulted the people who cared the most about you when they tried to give you reliable information for your own good. Well I was dumb enough to do that very thing. What an idiot I was. Fortunately I wised up just before things could not be repaired
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Sometime "gossip" can be a "GOOD" thing. I am extremely fortunate to live in a community that really cares about eachother. It is something of a rarity these days.
My question is how many of you out there have done the same thing?3 responses
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
13 Oct 10
well, yes ive been the subject of gossip many times. also, ive been advised and did not listen and have had painful results because of not realising they had my best interest in mind.
Hi "bunnybon7". Yep, that's how it was. Not fun huh? Sometime I am little "HARDHEADED" as we say in America and don't see the forest for the trees until we run into a tree. Thanks for your response.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
13 Oct 10
hi.. for you discussion i cant answering for it coz its can make some feeling hearts and if i answering too i will become more stupid and jerk of for end
Thank you for your comment although I'm really not sure what you are saying. @fhems2010 (70)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Well to tell you, everybody is experiencing that and that GOSSIP is everywhere. Sometimes gossip will make your life down just don't ever believe on it. Just make sure you are doing the best you can and that you are doing the right way. Say when you stay humble and patient for your day to day experience or whatever you do in your life then I think you will realize how happy life it is. Just don't feel bad for what already happened since you can not go back on to it. Charge to experience as they say and you learn from it. Just don't repeat whatever bad things happen in the past and try not to be mislead again. Since anywhere in this world has many sinners and temptation is always at your side. But the decision whether you do it wrong or right depends on you. Just don't be mislead and you need God's guidance for that.
@bigal3 (1231)
• Thailand
14 Oct 10
Thank you "fhems2010" for your comment. It makes a lot of sense and believe me I have "REALLY LEARNED" from this experience. In America people gossip in a negative way with very little caring involved so when it happened to me over here I "assumed" it was the same way even though I have lived here for almost 5 years now with four of those years at the same place. It seems the people of Asia have more caring about eachother and us crazy "farangs" (foreigners) than in my home country and I find that refreshing.
