Wanted: Boyfriend
By anneshirley
@anneshirley (1516)
Philippines
October 13, 2010 9:27am CST
I've never been in any serious relationship for my entire life and I wonder if I will ever find a guy who will be reason enough for me to want to give up my freedom. All my friends are married now and they are starting to wonder if I will ever settle down and get married. They keep asking me one question, "what kind of guy are you looking for?". Honestly, I don't know the answer to this question. So for all the single ladies out there, what kind of guy are you looking for? I keep pushing every men away because of my fear in commitment, how should I deal with this problem? Also, does being in power can make males more intimidated? I really wonder....
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10 responses
@faithloveire (69)
• Oman
13 Oct 10
I look for a guy who really knows what he wants, who can take care of me regardless of the situation, and who knows how to make me feel loved and happy. He should also be dependable, and be my real life knight in shining armour. :D
It's really a good thing to try and settle down with a guy who you know can support you in every possible way. There's a sense of security in it too, so you should give it a try.
:D
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
my real life knight in shining armour. :D
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
*think*
*think*
*think*
Nah, there must be other knights out there.*kidding*
But you're right..
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Hi, have you ever wondered why you are afraid of commitment? maybe there is something that you have to learn or deal with yourself before you can enter into a serious relationship with a guy. Sort of like the movie " Runaway Bride", if you have seen the movie, then you can relate to what I am trying to say. Besides, you don't really have to rush into a relationship just because all your friends are married. There is a perfect timing for everyone, just enjoy being single while you wait for the right guy to come into your life
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
14 Oct 10
I am too, single with no prospect of ever finding a guy I can cherish. Well, I only want a guy who can accept me for what I am totally. I don't think you should change yourself to be with a guy. If he loves you, he will convince you to commit yourself to him.
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
hi ,, guys,, i am needed a boyfrienf right now,.,., so for those who are available,.,,.,.,.i am single.,.
and ready to mingle,.,.
@opportunity2u (247)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 10
To get settle down is a big issue in ones life. No guarantee that the one you chose is the right person who will love you in the rest of your lifetime. It's kind of gamble of life in a certain view. :) Very serious !!! Anyway, life is like that, you never try, you will never know. Like Forest Gump said "My mum said, life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are gonna to get." Take it easy, there are people that cannot sacrify their freedom no matter what. So, go with your heart with this matter as long as you yourself feel comfortable and not hurting anyone. Take care.
@bupsypie1988 (65)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
For me, i just like a guy with simple personalities.He should be humble,romantic and God-fearing.But for you i think you should not be afraid of commitments because how would you know if you won't try it.Right?!.Don't be afraid of the things that you don't know the result yet.Be optimistic girl.As they say love can wait and don't look for love,love should look for you.But if you won't make the first step how would you find the perfect guy for you.
With your second question, i think it all depends on the personality of the guy.Some guys like being empowered with and some don't.You just have to see for yourself girl.And again,please don't be afraid.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
13 Oct 10
sorry i am not single...but replying to your discussion...
first of all no man is perfect and also a perfect is different for every individual depending on his/her choice of what she wants in him....i think to help you out...(if at all you want to get in live)....you should make a list of what you want in a guy and when you meet someone whom you find interesting ...you just keep ticking the positive points in your list you get in him...even if you get 70-80% of your requirements...i think you can be happy with him...and once you like someone there is automatically change in you,.....and you don't have to fear for commitment...you did it of your own and find happiness in doing something for him ...good luck
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Can I apply Mam? *where the heck is that Resume" (joking)
Friends in my age bracket either are married with kids or getting ready to settle down. I envy them seriously, the people you didn't expect to tie the knot, did it. some how, i kept wondering what made me decide to be left behind. Was I just stupid that i got stuck to where I am now?
I keep being away with women not because of the weight, but because i might get seriously rejected. besides, am a bit sensitive guy.
i think not every one is destined to settled down. maybe some are destined.for greatness.
think about it.
@hakuyo (200)
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13 Oct 10
I am looking for a guy that is honest and is deeply deeply in love with me otherwise he will use me then he will leave. My opinion about love is to wait because love will find you, you won't find love. I don't really care about what kind of guy i like because if you are in love with someone, will it matter? no! that's what i think.