Will you be affected when your partner posts sexy pictures in Facebook?

Bingskee- I have absolutely no issues with my sexuality/sensuality or that of my spouse's. I have several very sexy pictures on Facebook that are visible to those who are friends and my spouse is the one who took the photos and helped me pick out which ones to post. He has several photos on his own page and I do not find that offensive in the least. I think that what leads to upsets is if the couple have no communication in their relationship as to what their comfort levels are regarding various things. In this case it would be photos on a social networking site. Now, to be fair no place is danger proof Bings. Not even going to a club, church social, or the mall is safe from stalkers. If someone is delusional and wants to stalk someone they will regardless of what is shared or not shared. I think one has to understand the nature of stalking before one simply equates it with what one shares on the internet. It is again the saying correlation does not equal causation. Yes, one should be safe but one should be safe regardless. If one happens to find themselves the victim of stalking one should report it immediately to the local authorities. I recommend that all women take a self defense course that focuses on combative especially joint manipulation. One should also learn and practice situational awareness. If one is aware of their surroundings one is less likely to become a victim. Namaste-Anora

Their are many problems with your partner posting scandalous pictures on social networking sites. It obviously shows that he/she is maybe not entirely happy with the relationship and is looking for someone new. Their is always the danger of stalkers and naughty pictures only raises that problem. Plus, It puts you in a bad light that doesn't help you in the long run.

Well I'll be deeply affected if my partner posts raunchy pics on social networking sites and I think most boyfriends would because according to me it can be equated with infidelity.I mean,what else could be the reason but to try and titillate some one other than your boyfriend by posting such pictures.If the person was a celebrity,it could make sense as it is the demand of their profession.But in all other cases,it is thoroughly condemnable.If you have a partner doing this,you can be rest assured that he/she is not faithful to you and is dissatisfied with you and thus looking forward to finding a new companion.Though hurting it might be but this definitely is cause for concern and should be followed by immediate discussion with your partner.If he/she refuses to remove the picture,you know it is time to remove him from your life!!

I wont be affected by this, unless she actually shows her v@gina or br3asts uncovered. When she's totally naked then I would be mad since she is disrespecting me as his partner. But if it is just sexy sexy, then it is okay. What's the difference between people posting sexy pictures on a social network and people posting almost naked on sexy magazines? Huh?.

eyah the internet could be very dangerous really. especially here in our country that is still yet to be developed.. a lot of people are learning tactics in the internet for a lot of fooilshness. the thing is its too hard to trace especially for all those softwares today.. thats the reason why facebook is geeting to be a dangerous social site also. i just hope there is something done for all those problems. but its the person who is responsible for the privacy for their own profile. so everyperson should be briefed before using some social sites.. and it should be emphasized

absolutely affected, i mean what would be his reason for posting pics online? shouldn't it be only me who's supposed to see that in the first place? but seriously,unless he has a sensible reason to give as to why he should do it then he would be expecting an argument once i see those pics of him online. it doesn't make any sense to me to do that. i'm not on facebook myself because i'm not in favor of updating the world about my whereabouts and what-not.

of course i would feel mad about her. i wouldn't even dare do it myself even if i'm a man. few months ago, i came across a news about safety measures in using social networks. few are not to put your personal data like birthdate and addresses and even your family members'/kids' names and details. these can bring lots of troubles when someone picks you for a victim.

How can you not be affected by this? It is a reflection on you as well when you have a relationship with someone. When they post something publicly, all bets are off.

No I think I will not be affected if my partner’s posting any sexy pictures on their facebook profile. Because now in these days it is normal and also peoples take sit normal. So I think it is not a big issue. And I also don’t think it is so bad.

Okay if my partner were top post sexy pictures on his facebook I would absolutely have a problem with that, as the only sexy picture he needs to be posting are of me and well I will not do that of course. But to me it is like letting the whole world that he is a player of some sort and well no man of mine can be a player outside of my play-house. As for women and or men who do post them of themselves well they should know better the internet is filled with creepy crawlers all over the place.

yes,probably i'd be affected..and curious about what he had post.. i'd be jealous to because it's really complicated..

Someone actually had a stalker from facebook? OMG thats so creepy, I honestly don't like facebook I had to delete my account I have to say my pictures werent at all like other girls but I think I am pretty so guys would add me and I had no idea who they were, also I work at this place and this guy asked me my name and my city which I didnt think anything of it until I got home and checked my facebook, and he had added me as a friend and messaged me! HOW CREEPY its giving these weirdos a way into our lives and I didnt like that at all so I deleted me facebook after that. which is ridiculousy hard to do you have to search for delete facebook before you can they like dont want anyone deleting their facebook apparently..

Totally affected. I think this is natural!