How do you know that the person you love loves you too ?

India
October 13, 2010 10:30pm CST
Love is the most wonderful in life. Every person in the life is bond to be fall in love with someone. Love is when you care about someone else more than yourself. You don't know how much someone loves you? But how to know if you are loved by the one you love? Well, does that person look at you in special way? Do they seen intersted in your conversation? Does the person always want to spend time with you & never tries to let you down? Does she/he express her feelings in certain ways? If it looks like she/he loves you, then they probably do!
15 responses
@ADMaroC (76)
15 Oct 10
For me, if the person loves me too.. i can determine that in a way that he/she is showing love and care just for me. if he/she is showing or trying to be nice to be. if he/she is do things that makes me happy. he/she would protect me in any danger.. that's how i could determine a person if he/she loves me too..
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
Hmm... I dont really know..But I think I know it when a person likes me but not really sure when a person loves me already. I think the only way I would know if is when they tell me that they do. Because every person expresses love in different ways. Some may already express love but the object loved could not notice it. Another could be so sweet and seems loving but didnt really love that much.
@zubirik (111)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
Love is indeed a mystery.. Anyway, we can see it through actions. But we need to be more keen about the feelings that the person might express towards us. Nowadays, people might be dramatic actors/actresses that can fake their feelings for the sake of something. Nonetheless, we can only testify if the person really loves you if the feeling is very mutual and the actions are really profound. Like you two have your world on your own.
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
well,for women or i would talk for myself,i believe in my strong instincts.i believe in what my heart and feelings says rather than in my mind.it is basically how you feel about your partner.you can feel and you can prove it yourself.love comes naturally and it does not need itself to prove it.
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
15 Oct 10
Indeed we have difficulty to find any people who love us, but if we see someone who is loving our friends or others we easily find out, yes it is always seen with her wishes and would follow him wherever he goes, and if ordered to visit his house he must be very pleased and spirit.
@uchiha_L (37)
14 Oct 10
i just broke up with my boyfriend. i feel so sad... he's not coming back... :(
14 Oct 10
You are unlikely to know unless you tell that person and, they may resciprocate you feelings. There are other things that can tell you whether a person shares your feelings via, touch and things that they may say.
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
i know that if that person love me he loves me to because he always care to me, he treat me a special, he give his attention to me, he will never let me down....
• China
14 Oct 10
It is very hard to identify the hint for me.The direct way is that you ask h/s whether h/s loves you or not.There must be some hint in his/her action.You should learn it diligently.Maybe you have vast experience in love.You can share it with all mylotters.
@JEpisanD (43)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
For me ,love is caring the person , being there for them no matter what it costs you(physically and emotionally), and a willingness to endure all things necessary to keep that person in your life.
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
I think all of the things you said are manifestationp if someone loves a person. Some people are very transparent in showing their feelings and some people don't like to admit that they love someone else but they can't hide the true feelings for all their actions clearly show how they feel. If a person is in love, he likes doing things to please the one he or she loves regardless if the feeling is mutual, right?
@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
for me what matters most is how you feel it, if you really feel that your partner loves you so much then thats it, i know all of us got a feeling if ever our partner is cheating on us or he/she change and then we will asking ourselves "is he/she still loves me?" something like that and on the other side, you would know if your partner loves you so much if he/she treat you special, or if he/she says that your prettiest in the world eventhough you know for yourself that your not good looking enough :)
14 Oct 10
This topic seems very interesting to me. LOL! Well, what you've written in your topic as questions seems to answer the title of this discussion. And I agree with what you are expressing. A person can actually feel it, s/he can really feel it when s/he is being loved. Not unless that person is numb or feeler! LOL! Anyway, I can more feel that the person loves me when s/he always want to spend time with me and never tries to let me down. After all, love is for everyone. Friendly love, romantic love, brotherly love, sisterly love, and God's love. Believe me, just listen to your heart and you will be convinced. Just be courageous!
@ynam29 (40)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
You don't. And that's the magic of it all. Because if you know how much they love you, then everything stops. You stop doing things to make them love you more. And it's not supposed to be that way. Love is when you find someone you care for who makes you love yourself more. It makes you want to be a better person and to be able to make that other person feel the way you do. And because of that feeling, you grow. together.
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
When s/he says it.... Saying "I love you" is not an easy task if s/he says it.. It might be true..