Dumping someone you love because of pride...worthy?

@SimpleBB (1329)
Philippines
October 14, 2010 9:22am CST
When you're in a good relationship for couple of years, but suddenly you heard something not so nice issue about your bf/gf. Confrontation had happened and he admitted it with apology. You made a decision of dumping him because of your pride. After then...you found out that he/she still occupied a large space of your heart, but now he/she is with someone else. You feel that you regret your decision. Did you happened to come in dreaming or wishing this person to come back in your life? If you can see that there is possibility of winning him/her back, would you rather sacrifice your pride this time? Care to share your thoughts on this?
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@hakuyo (200)
14 Oct 10
If you are really really really deeply in love with him or her, then of course you have to risk your price, even your life because being love is a difficult thing. It would depend whether you should risk your pride on someone else. Pride has a big influence on society these days. so it is your decision after all
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Welcome hakuyo, Sometimes we really have to analyze if someone is really worth sacrificing and fighting for. Love is something that our happiness depends on most of the time. Thanks for responding on this post, and happy mylotting to you.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
hello Simple, If i can still sense that,there is a possibility for me to win him back,yes, without second thought i will swallow my pride. Besides,it is me who dump him,and not him who dump me. So,there is no pride to talk with,since it is my fault. It is just about saying sorry,and asks him if there is a chance of " starting all over again " Pride is nothing compared to a lifetime regret when you won't take your last chance to be happy with someone you loved most. If it is worth the fight,i will go for it. Love is always worth fighting for.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Hi Jaiho, Nice to see you on the first to drop a comments here. Well, right. Somehow,false pride caused us bigger pain. And love is really something to fight for. Hoping to see you in more discussion here. Happy mylotting to you.