Do you think to do well inferior to marry well?

No body is perfect and marriage is a gamble. The true colors of the person you marry will only come out later in your marriage life. Count it your blessings if you find a good man with a fat pocket.

There are places in my country where poor girls think the same way. I don't know how it feels to be so poor and hopeless, that you would rather choose to marry a man you don't love only for his money. I founded my life on my powers. I wanted to succeed in life by myself, and I think I did this. I think a husband must be a partner in life, not a person whom you totally depend on.

Hi zhouxi - how are you doing. :) I think some hardships in life early on make us wiser. So we should face them, come what may. That way, we learn our lessons well, and we are careful in future. Otherwise, we can be duped in later part of our lives, and we would not have comfortable old age.