What's worse too much jealousy or not jealousy at all?

A bit of jealousy is healthy in a relationship when you are in love, it shows you care about your partner enough to care if somebody else takes an interest. Its when jealousy gets to the point that you or your partner cant look at nyone else, cant think about anyone else cant do anything that it becomes a problem. I guess its the same with everything a little goes a long way

Jealousy can change you from the person you really are. too much jealousy can destroy a relationship. It can make us lose control and we say and do things we can't take back. Not being jealous doesn't mean that we don't care or have no feelings. it just means that we are confident in our relationships.

I have tried both situations. My ex-boyfriend was never jealous, and it made me feel that he simply didn't care about me or care about the things I did or the people I met. My husband is very jealous, and with him I experience the opposite extreme, because his jealousy gets too much sometimes. We argue about his jealousy sometimes, I don't like that and I don't like it when he accuses me of flirting with men that I have never been met or talked to. But I would still say that the feeling that my ex-boyfriend just didn't care about me hurt me a lot more, because it made me feel me that he didn't love me and that I wasn't the least bit important to him.

Lack of something or too much of something is not good. You have to have everything in you, then you can be whole. It's just like Yin and Yang, Good and Bad. You cannot be good always and you cannot be bad always. We need to balance good and bad in ourselves.

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jealousy is normal. if you love someone, you tend to become possessive at times.

there is no jealousy in my relationship. and I wouldn't want there to be. where there is complete trust there is no need for jealousy.

hi insulin I think a person would be almost inhuman not to be a bit jealous of your mate, and I know both I and my husband were prettty jealous. He got jealous when I was working in the hospital and took care of this lovely elderly man. He sent me a Valentine and my husband was all up in arms so I took him to see Mr. Stanton and then he saw for himself that he had nothing to be jealous about as the man was 70 to my 34 . We had a lovely marriage as we were very close. So a little jealousy is great I think.

Jealousy on any level is not good for you or your relationships. Too much jealousy can eat away at you. it can leave you cold and bitter. this is not the way we should enjoy life. Getting rid of jealousy is the best thing to do.

It is normal to get jealous when you are in a relationship. The only problem is when there is too much jealousy or when on gets jealous and does something stupid. This would instead result in fights and lack of trust between the two. So remember not to be ruled by it. Instead make it into a positive thing.

If two persons fall in love with each other.Certainly,they'll be jealous when the other one is flurted by someone else.But if it's too much and too often,it will bring anxiety to others.Going too far is as bad as not going far enough.

I think like you.