Ex Partner And Ex In - Laws

Just don't mind them, go on with your life...start a new life with your children, show them that you can survive alone with the kids and that you can be both mother and a father to them. You said they keep on following you, let them follow you, i am sure they will be tired of following you always. Just be cool, relax, smile, breath and don't show them that you are irritated and bothered, ignore them as if they does not exist in this world. Be happy, life must go on...

Honey how sad, and I understand you only in my situation, I finally let go and well it is as if the kids and I dropped off the planet and no longer breath to these people. Forget about how abusive this man was and how he had two children with other woman while married to me. So after the divorce, unfortunately he divorces the kids and has never looked back. Well my daughter graduated college and I made a dinner celebration, my daughter said as courtesy I should invite some of her aunts as she wanted them to see what a wonderful job I did on my own. My daughter did not think about her Father and does not want anything to do with him, after all he has never looked back and we would not know where his whereabouts are anyways. So I sent via mail the invite to her family. So I get a really disturbing call that I needed to make an effort to invite the father, what??!!?? First off where the H would I find him and why and what for. My daughter forbid me anyways... So I explained all to her aunt, so tell me why she never reserved or showed up and said I was an unreasonable person. huh.. cajhimenez, we will never be looked in any other way, we are the bad ones in their eyes.. But guess what do like me, I never ever said anything negative to my ex, or to his family about him. In fact I always told my kids they cannot be loyal to my heart but their own. If they wanted to see him someday the decision was totally theirs. As young as I am, as I married at 15. I have two beautiful recent college graduates that I raised and supported, very humbly on my own and each one on the day of graduation, which I have on video...hehehe... Where they accept their college diplomas and look towards me and say "Mom we did it." So moral of my story, yes it hurts.. oh girl yes but we have to get past that and do the best we can for our kids and remember later we live for them. Good luck to you girl I know what you are going through and will go through.. Hugs to you!