do you think some people push you away even if they care

United States
October 15, 2010 6:02pm CST
do you think some people push you away even if they care?if so why do you think they do this?i have a friend that i can tell really needs for some one to care for them but will not get close to any one.this is so hard for me to understand.
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@harry89 (2330)
• India
16 Oct 10
Yes i think sometimes it happens. Whenever someone is sad or depressed about something then he wants to spend some moments along to talk to himself about the things going around him. And i think the same case would be happening with your friend, and you should respect it and leave him alone for sometime. Harry :-)
• United States
16 Oct 10
thanks harry-i think some do need time to find them selfs and i agree as well they should have this time.its hard some times to figure out what they really want.
• India
16 Oct 10
some of the people push us even though they need not have to do it. they do this so that they get the internal pleasure in doing so.i always hope they stop this behavior of theirs. on doing so they cause many accidents which may not have happened if they have not done this. but some of them does so accidentaly and the people think they did it on purpose. but some idiotic natured people does this on purpose and goes away without any regrets.
• United States
16 Oct 10
i am sure there is alot of diffrent reasons people would do this .it sure is sad they just can't learn to open up and talk about things.i think this would help every one involved.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
14 May 12
Some people just act in ways that in the end, I don't think that we were really meant to understand them. There are just times where understanding a lot of people and their motivations is just going to make our heads really spin and give our headaches. There are people who honestly do care, but perhaps in some way, they think that the feeling might not be mutual. Any kind of uncertain feelings and it is just really much easier to nudge, to shove these people right away, to really just not even deal with it. That way, these people are out of the line of sight. There is no chance to get burned because these types of people are not letting anyone right into their circle. It might seem silly but it is happening time after time.
• United States
16 Oct 10
they push people away because there scared
• United States
16 Oct 10
do you think they are scared of being hurt?