Kissing your wife.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
India
October 15, 2010 10:05pm CST
Do you kiss your wife everyday morning, just before getting from the bed. I always kiss both her cheeks, and on her lips.Some days I forget to do this, and on some days she gets up before me, so I am not able to do this.Some years back, she also used the same technique, but now days,but now days she does not kiss me regularly, and it is only from my side, the action is. What do you think about this. Your very honest opinion.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
16 Oct 10
I've never done that and I wouldn't want my husband to do it, either. I don't like routine displays of affection. Things like that should be spontaneous and meaningful.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
17 Oct 10
That's well and good, but I'm sorry to say that doing the same thing at the same time every single day is the definition of routine. She's probably become bored of it which is why she doesn't like it anymore. It feels to her like a habit, not a genuine display.
You need to talk to HER about this. Ask her why she doesn't like it and what she would rather do instead.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
It is not a routine display of affection. When I see her sleeping calmly, I feel a surge of love and I always love her at those times.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
16 Oct 10
Well, you have to accept that you both are matured ones and don't need those wake up kisses formally. Kissing should have some meaning, otherwise it loses its value. I think, your wife is aware of that and she reserves her kisses for some special moments. Honestly, I don't think she is ignoring you.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
16 Oct 10
Thanks for the comforting words Ganesh. Yes you are right on the point that we are quite matured, and I should not expect things like that frequently, but somehow, once in a way, if she kisses me, I would be quite happy.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
18 Oct 10
I agree with you, ramesh! she should be kind enough to deliver one or two at the least after some intervals. As you still do it to her, she should understand that you will expect the same. May be she is full of tensions and hurry to meet her daily chores as a house wife. Take her for some outings in the week end and you may get a kiss from her. best of luck!
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
16 Oct 10
I feel you should speak to her. If I was at her place i would have felt very lucky. I feel that she might have other tension. Or she might be in hurry to do some other work.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
Thanks for the kind words yogeshdhusa. Of course when you are in the middle age, there are lot of tensions.
@amg5009 (62)
• United States
16 Oct 10
As people grow closer in relationships a lot of small details are missed or forgotten. I think you should make it a point to tell your wife that you would like for her to do that daily and see what she has to say. She might just think that now you are married you already know she loves you. I do not kiss my significant other anymore when we wake up, but we do make sure that we kiss each other and tell each other we love one another just before leaving for work.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
Well atleast you kiss each other before leaving for work.With a grown up boy in the house, we are not able to do it, and the only time for kissing is in the privacy of your room.In our culture, we do not kiss in front of children as well as elders.It might look strange, but that is our culture.
@quocanh91 (25)
• Thailand
16 Oct 10
I think you should kiss your wife every morning without paying attention to "your turn or her turn"! I mean you kiss your wife with love, even your wife doesn't kiss you regularly - It's True LOVE!
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
I do that quocanh91, I still continue to do that.
I see that you are new in our forum, and I take this opportunity to welcome you to mylot and wish you all the success.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
I think you hit the nail on the right spot.Yes people certainly forget about the necessity of the basic expressions.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
16 Oct 10
Well I am a bachelor yet, So I dont have that pleasuer and oppurtunity of Kissing any body yet in Mornings, When I Will get married I will definity Use these morning kisses techneque, its so good and romantic.Now to Your problem,I think you should Not take that much tension, if she Doesnt kiss you regularly may be she need a break from this regular daily kissing schdule.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
17 Oct 10
Yes jagjit273, you must certainly kiss your wife in the morning, it is not only romantic, it is a good way to start the day.My wishes for your happy married life.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
My husband always kiss me sometimes on the cheek sometimes on my lips. Before going to bed when we wake up in the morning I always have a kiss from my husband. Not just from my husband but also from my kids. We do kiss each other everyday me, my hubby and the kids.
@rameshkumaar57 (5908)
• India
16 Oct 10
I think you are like us. Of course we do not kiss our children. In India we do not show our affection towards children like that. Of course when they are young we kiss them a lot, but once they grow up a little we stop doing it. I do not know why we do like that, maybe it is do with our culture.
