I broke my own RULE :-O

I am not even going to ask, sweetie. One thing though. The day you start sharing secrets, might be the biggest mistake of your life. Just be careful next time, okay. TATA.

letran ^^ ahah dont be like that^^ yes sure we argued a bit but im happy you shared that secret with me^^ and always can share it^^ but your secret surprised me a bit so i was a bit angry bcs other people involved^^ anyway that other person was a loser so i guess he didnt care really. but you saw in end was you getting hurt and none of them so please sweety next time just be more careful^^ ok? and im here for you always^^

It isn’t a bad thing to be trusting but I guess we should think twice before revealing secrets to another person unless we really trust them and to earn that trust it can take years of friendship sometimes. Anyway what is done is done and you are friends again so that’s good. Hopefully she won’t betray your confidence and continue being a good friend to you. There is a lesson in all this about giving real trust time to develop before revealing secrets.

I wont be guessing who that lovely girl is, I had someone in my mind though Anyway sometimes if we enjoy the conversation much we tend to forget our limitations and boundaries so unconsciously or consciously we say things that would somehow garner a negative reaction from the one we are conversing with. Its good that you still are friends despite of what happened and for that I think I can safely assume that she is indeed a person with a great personality Its not bad to like someone because there will always be a possibility of attraction between two people but it does not necessarily mean its mutual or on the same level as the other

It's good that you are friends again but just like the other advices here, secrets are only for your closest friends whom you can really trust. I know there are some people who you feel at ease with even though you've known them only for a short time but it is still wise to be careful.

Lesson to ourself is the best teacher in our life, without this you cannot realize sometime that you got mistaken. Anyhow, I don't blame you because I believe in old saying that no secret always secret it will reveal in due time, whether you slip or intentionally. In such case I'm glad after that arguement you still freinds and I think after that your friendship is more deeply. Moral lesson in your experience is don't ever-ever reveal your secret to anybody.... to avoid any bad situation. see you around

Hello Rey, Actually, you have broken that rule twice when you revealed most of your secrets to me but you shouldn't have told her about us. because they're are people out there who are not really open minded to the things that other people do in secret. as so you know, forbidden taboo is the best fruit next time, just do normal conversations and don't tell secrets just for them to trust you.

you didn't no nothing wrong. am surprised that you were able to talk to this person alone. but trust me, don't do that again. too dangerous to lend a secret.

secrets should be kept among us only. because not only it can destroy us but also allows us to be analyze by a lot of people and judge us immediately. this time it's really different from before. so, be careful what you tell.

you trusted the wrong person. don't you think she'd been telling other people already. if this is a foreigner, then you don't have problem. but if it's from you're country, you better keep those rumors to yourself/..

you easily trust people. i think that's a lesson you should remember. besides, times like these there aren't that much to be trusted. but you will end up being selfish if you don't try to be open minded too. if you think you're just a friend to this person, just be usual in this.

I have learned in life that it trusting people is quite difficult for me. For some odd reason when I let my guard down, people oh so disappoint me. I have always been quite a private person, so am always on the guard not to reveal too much. So I got quite platonic friendly with an old high school friend of mine, I so loved this friend of mine, I use to kid that he was like a great girlfriend I never had, ( he is heterosexual, LOL), it was just so easy to talk to him and he be so understanding and a great listener. So I get too comfortable and blurt out something that two silly girl friends have been feuding over for years. I immediately realized what I did and specifically said to my guy friend please be careful as I am not the bring and take type of person and I never involve myself in he said, she said cr@p. Okay so 2 minutes later we arrive at a group gather ing where one of the friends I had mentioned about was there. Just one minute into sitting down he leans over and blabs to my girlfriend. Well this my friend was my total fault, my two girl friends and I have not spoken since and well let us just say my guy friend and I speak maybe now 1 - 2 times in a year and although he has apologized immensely I will never ever trust him or anyone for that matter. Moral of my long story here is that I need to continue to be as private as I have always said I would be.