Do you sometimes miss your Ex Girlfriend or Boyfriend?
By rautrahul
@rautrahul (267)
India
October 16, 2010 5:44am CST
Love is the feeling which cannot be forgotten in life. Everyone in the life once falls in love. But due to some reasons or some problems the relationship of love does not go for a longer period & we break up with our love mate.
But have you ever miss your Ex Girlfriend or Boyfriend in your life after your break up? Do you have the memories of you Ex BF/Gf or you just don't want to remember the past things?
23 responses
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
6 Jan 11
I will miss my ex sometimes.Especially my first love.I have imagined that we can come together for many times.Now the relationship between us is just like the siege,willing to become lovers as before and at the same time afraid of embarrassing when we meet.I clearly remember what we have done together in the past,and I treasure the happy time in my memory now.
beeduzhe
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I think it's not good to miss people that really don't care about us. I don't miss anymore my ex because I think it is enough to think that she is cheating on me and ruin my life...
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
18 Oct 10
There will always be memories, but I will never miss my ex after what he pulled on me. My current boyfriend treats me like a queen and I'd be stupid to turn my back on that for some lingering memories. Yet, sometimes in my dreams I see my ex and it's like he never turned into that royal jerk. So it's only in my dreams I miss him. Not in real life.
@moneyspinner (613)
• Mumbai, India
17 Oct 10
Well Yes I still miss my First girlfriend sometimes. Its those happy memories which still haunt me, perhaps I want them to haunt me when I want to be happy and have a smile on my face. I don't really want her to come back anyways. But I had this short first relationship which was my first love as well, but as destiny had her game, it broke of for no big reason. I believe that memories are forever. And its never a bad thing to ponder on your wonderful memories as far as they do not affect your present life. I would always want to miss my first girl friend don't know why, but I like it that way it gives a different peace or bliss to my mind thinking of those memories while listening to songs. A sad song with that memories does not make me sad actually, rather it makes me feel more romantic and experience love beautifully :).
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
One of the things that I am afraid to happen is to see my past boyfriends again. I have a very bad reputation of just leaving them without explaining myself. Maybe because I am afraid that if I saw them sad, I might change my mind. I still have some good memories about my previous BFs but I would prefer not to see them again : )I know some of them are still mad at me.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Yes, in a way, because of their exciting memories that I don't experience it now with my partner. But of course they have their differences and they have their way of showing their love.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
17 Oct 10
We are human-being. We have the memory. Our memories about the past can be good and bad.
I am still having those unforgotten memories of my ex-girlfriends in my mind.
However, I should not recall those in the past.
I must concentrate in my present family because it will be my future.
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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17 Oct 10
Memories are always there, they fade a little over time but never go away, i have missed a couple of my ex's and wished that things would have turned out differently, but thats life and we just have to move on.
@mariacecilia13 (490)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
As for my own experience, I don't really miss my ex, maybe it's because even at the start of our relationship, I know that it wouldn't work. It's just like a mutual agreement that he is free and I am free, so why not try it? And we tried, but unfortunately(or I think it's so fortunate!)that we don't end up together. :)
@gymboyzptc (108)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
yes i sometimes miss my girlfriends before, i miss the days when we are together, going places, having fun.
@sandyabegail (51)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
of course i do.. especially when i get to places we usually go to or do stuff we used to do...
@huydiet71 (87)
• Thailand
17 Oct 10
My love was broken one year ago. On parting, my tears always fell up at once I remember to memories. and now although time has passed, I am really sad when I think about him, my love.
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
You couldnt forget the person who in some point in your life you shared with, it doesnt also follow that when the relationship is ended everything is forgotten. Good memories and painful moments are still recalled at times. But you don't need to linger on those memories, it just stayed there when you look back on it, you smile how silly you been for the sake of love.BUt you always value and place your best foot forward to someone you love at the present.
@sfcreyes24 (129)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Yes sometimes, because you spend your time with them. you miss the things that you usually do. I always feel bad if i remember my past and failed relationships..
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes sometimes i remember my ex bf^^ we used to sing together, talk so much and be happy^^ till the day that he started to be always jealous and call me liar and saying i loved other guys all the time. he didnt trust enough in my feelings for him and i felt tired and let him go. but yes sometimes i really miss him bcs even i have a bf now we were happy in our past^^ and i wont delete those memories^^ is good to have it
@jramorinD (85)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Yes, I do miss him. His already part of my life. So there's really times that I miss him specially the good and the bad times we shared together. But I would rather prefer to remember the good ones than the bad ones.
@emmely (73)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Yes, I think everyone misses their ex girlfriend or boyfriend because you are happy at the start of the relationship. It is where you fell in love and couldn't be separated from each other. You always want to be with him or her you think about them all the time. It just happens that at some point in your relationship that both of you outgrew each other and the relationship failed.
@rozencross (4)
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17 Oct 10
It's normal to miss them after the break up, it may even take a really long time to move on if you really loved them. It took me like 3years to get over my first boyfriend. Even if I had a boyfriend during that time, I still find myself thinking about him and wondering how it could have been. Sometimes, I would still cry and regret and wish we were still together. But time heals everything and I also pray to forget things already because it wouldn't be fair for my boyfriend who loves me dearly.